My 3 Sons

Opening New doors... Literally!

2010-01-19T16:51:00.000-08:00

How in the world can a 22 month old open doors? And I'm not talking the lever handles but the perfectly round style. He is into EVERYTHING!! The latest... He's mastered the opening doors... especially the bathroom door. That means I'm going to have to get a child proof thing on there before he's plugging the toilet with random the remote, or brushing his teeth to the root, or washing the floor with a roll of ultra soft Charmin.
Check out the video of Brady demonstrating his newest skill on my facebook page. In addition to his craftiness you'll hear in the video he's a little mocking bird, repeating you pretty much word for word. Although its a challenge to keep up with this child, its certainly a joy to watch him make such grand discovery's.

Hockey Hot Shots

2010-01-18T19:48:00.000-08:00

Mite 1 hockey with the Piedmont Panthers
Like I mentioned before the boys have really gotten into the game this year, and follow the puck around pretty good. It just amazes me how those little legs move so quick and precise on the ice.

Riley #18

Dylan #25

And after a long day of hockey watching, the little man has a bit of a weak moment. Fall #28 in the snow and too many puffy layers to allow for an unassisted spring back onto his feet.

Frozen Falls

2010-01-18T19:01:00.001-08:00

Just got home from working a shift at the Hockey club house concession's stand (aka canteen for the Canadian readers). Pretty slow night, and thankfully got to leave a few minutes early. Met a few other parents tonight and shared stories of parenthood exhaustion. Its so nice to have people to vent with...The load feels a bit lighter now so why not make another entry on my blog? That's 2 in one weeks time!!

I shouldn't be complaining too much right now, because we are coming off a weekend of Grandma time. My mom came for a visit this weekend and then stayed home with the boys today, since schools out for MLK day.
On Saturday we took the boys for a drive up the North Shore to check out the frozen version of Gooseberry Falls. We've been there a handful of times in the snow free months, but this was our first visit to see the frozen falls. Although ice cascades down all levels of the falls, in some parts you can see and hear the water falling behind the ice...pretty cool! Not all the trails are cleared though, blue so we pulled Brady boy around in his little sled, while the big boys and I wandered off the path to explore the frozeness of Gooseberry Falls State Park. Lots of sunshine, and the temp was 40 degrees... how sweet is that for January 16th.

I tried posing the kids for a nice photo standing on the upper falls, but they were too busy watching grandmas dog dancing around some passerbys to look at the camera.

Riley standing on the island in the middle falls.

Dylan checking out an icy cliff on the middle falls.

Big boys posing in the middle falls.

OF COURSE it wouldn't be a trip up the North shore without a great piece of pie. However, we didn't make the usual visit to the Rustic Inn, instead jumped the tourist bandwagon and stopped into Betty's Pies (as seen on the the Travel Channel's Andrew Zimmern show) for lunch. I had a delicious roasted garlic tomato soup with egg salad sandwich that ended with a slice of French Cream Cherry pie. Good food, tasty pie, and now I can say I've crossed it off my list of places to try along the scenic drive, but Rustic Inn still remains the fave... by far.

What the Heck... Why not?

2010-01-13T18:45:00.001-08:00

So I know its been a while and I'm still hesitant to sit now and write. Why... because I feel like I've missed so much over the last 8 months and feel obligated to go back and cover the grounds I've missed. So its that overwhelming task that has kept me away. But instead I'll pick up today and move forward. Should I have the spare time to work my way back, then I may do so, but for now I'm moving forward.

Well January finds us in the midst of hockey season. As you can assume Brad is never home and always at work, or running back to work. We share the same bed every night, but in a recent 10 day stretch we only called it a night together once. He's working so much that I'm left with the single parent blues this time of year... we all miss him dearly.
Dylan and Riley are busy with hockey practice 3 nights a week and Jamborees on the weekend... thats hockey 5 out of every 7 nights for them. With Brad at work, I'm left to do most of this carting around, and find myself really struggling to make it though the mental and physical demands of the process.
On those days I'm done with work at 4:00, pick Brady up at 4:10, pick boys up from school 4:20, arrive home 4:30, gear up for hockey 4:40 (this takes at least 25 minutes), leave for hockey 5:05, haul in 2 hockey bags while carrying a 40 lb squirming toddler and misc snacks and/or toys, 5:10 tie skates and fasten helmets, 5:15 hit the ice, make 20 trips from ice to the warming house trying to entertain toddler for the next hour, 6:15 practice ends and undo everything back to 4:30, 6:40 make supper (hopefully well planned and its just re-heat), maybe sitting down to eat at 7:00, rush through dinner to bath Brady 7:20 and tuck him in by 7:30 (school night), then onto the big boys shower 7:35 and snack to get them into bed by 8:00. Now keep in mind this schedule is done with a 21 month old very curious, high energy, demanding, loud, wild child. Sighhhhh... This is my Monday - Tuesday - Thursday schedule

On a lighter and happier note, and the reason why I put myself through this week after week is that the boys are LOVING IT and I've found some good coping strategies. Last year they were pretty reserved and not really excited about hockey, sometimes not even wanting to go. But this year, they cheer when its hockey night and are shouting out the door to their buddies the second we pull up. They come in all sweaty and full of fun stories from the ice. They are listening to their coaches, practicing the drills, and following the puck like a champ. This certainly makes it much more fun to watch them. Brady gets in on the action too, yelling "Hockey, Hockey... Woooo Woooo" as they skate by.

In addition I'm getting to meet other women/Mom's/dedicated parents and hopefully forming some lasting friendships along the way. A good handful have toddlers tagging along, and their are 2 other sets of twin boys on our team too. Its good to have a lot of threads in common, and plenty to talk about, when you see these families 5 times a week. All of the parents in this hockey club are so wonderful, supportive and helpful and don't hesitate to step in and help a fellow hockey parent when needed. (Yes, I've been the recipient of a lending hand more than once, but can also say I've passed it forward as well) Its these pieces that make it a more tolerable experience.

A bit of downtime

2009-05-26T19:09:00.001-07:00

Yes I'm still living and my fingers are still in working form...its just so damn busy around here that I don't find the quiet time to sit and reflect (our blog). Things come and go so fast its hard to keep up!

Dylan and Riley just wrapped up their spring hockey league last week, and so we are now enjoying a practice free week before T-Ball starts next Tuesday and then on top of that summer hockey starts the week after. That means 2-3 nights a week will be spent chasing them over the next 2 months. Both are pretty excited to play T-Ball and since grandma bought them some baseball pants they think they are hot stuff. They've been practicing in the yard and can run the bases at lightning speed. Hitting off a tee is pretty simple, but I get the giggles when I think ahead to what'll happen next week when it comes time for them to play an orchestrated game with 10 other 4-6 yr olds. I'll be sure to have the camera rolling.

Brady...what can I say- other than this kid is on the go. Walking at just a few weeks after his 1st birthday and hasn't slowed down since. He always wants to be where the action is or doing what everyone is doing and if you don't let him~ he lets you have it. Its hard to accept I've been dealt a child much like myself ...curious and INDEPENDENT!! Thankfully for the most part his charm and humor trump the rebel inside and I love him to pieces.

Brady is starting to say a few basic words like Mom, Dad, Done and a few others that we can at least understand ("Gawk" = Book, "Ha" = Hi, "S" = Yes). He is really good at mimicking sounds, especially animal sounds, and shows great interest in other simple words (ball, hat, milk)- trying to sound them out. In the meantime he uses baby signs for MILK, EAT, PLEASE, MORE, THANK YOU, and DONE to clue us in. In addition he's entertaining us all by experimenting with the many different tones, volumes, and sound effects he can make.

I've got eyes behind my head

2009-04-29T19:48:00.000-07:00

Just the other day I was passing through the hallway and caught a glimpse of the boys horsing around in the living room- jumping on the furniture, and without skipping a beat or pausing in my step from the kitchen I yelled out "Stop jumping on the Furniture". There was silence, and then I hear Dylan say to Riley "How'd she even see us, she's in the kitchen." Because I have eyes in the back of my head...
Its neat to see the amazement and wonder that Motherhood magic creates.

In recent weeks, I've noticed a significant shift in Dylan and Riley's mannerisms, composure, coordination, and comprehension. All of a sudden they've grown up and filled the shoes of "Big Boy" status. Its hard to explain... its just something that you all of a sudden see in your kids that wasn't there before.

I've always hated tossing out the common phrases like "where does the time go" or "they grow up so fast" because it just sounds like something you're supposed to say as a parent. And even though I'm still hesitant to tag myself to those bandwagon phrases, I will admit I'm actually feeling them.

Kindergarten Round-up

2009-04-14T20:03:00.000-07:00

So we took the boys to Kindergarten Round-Up today, to tour the school and get some feedback from the school and K teachers about whether or not to start the boys in school this fall. I debated taking them as we are leaning more toward the side of waiting until next year, but wanted to get some feedback from the school and teaches on this decision.

The school district sets Sept 1st as the cut-off, so to start Kindergarten this year kids need to be 5 by then. Well The boys turn 5 just fourteen days before that cut-off. Which easily makes them the very youngest in that class of kids. Its common for summer b-day kids to wait a year before starting school, which means some will be 6 when entering school and many will turn 6 the first couple months of school.

Now I understand every child is different and have no doubt that my brilliant ;-) duo could handle Kindergarten this year… they've been in structured daycare centers (full-time) with pre-school curriculum since birth, possess the necessary social skills and demonstrated their ability both by observation and testing. However, many elementary teachers have commented that the curriculum and expectations get significantly challenging at the 3rd grade level, and that even children who did well in the younger grades struggle as their brains are developmentally not ready for the concepts being taught. This can set a path for dis-interest in learning and a years of struggling in school. No parent wants this for their kids.

In addition, by waiting a year they would be at the same level or even at a slight athletic advantage with developmental coordination and experience under their belt. Whereas starting them in K this year would mean they are a year behind in development and exposure compared to their peers. The only athletic downfall to this (as Brad points out) is Junior hockey is based on age and they could miss out on a year of legibility in juniors after grad. Big whoop I say… They'll be playing D1 college hockey right out of High School anyway!

As you can see most signs point to waiting till next year… I can find many more pros to waiting than I can to jumping the gun. So we'll suck it up and foot another $15K (for real) to keep them in daycare this year. (Ouch that hurts when you put it in one lump sum- that doesn't include Brady either)

Dodged a Bullet

2009-03-18T19:48:00.000-07:00

Waking up to terrible cold symptoms this morning, Brad moans that he's not going into work, and I need to take the kids to school, because he's in the hurt bag. Like a typical man, he wants extra attention and the good ol wifey to feel sorry for him when he's sick. So I give my empathy, encourage him to take some medicine, drink plenty of fluids and rest the day away as I head off to work. Around 11:00 I get a call on my cell phone from his office manager who's worried that she hasn't seen nor head from Brad. So I explain he's home sick, but its not like him to at least call in or ignore her calls (maybe mine, but..). Here he was sleeping so soundly he just didn't hear the phone. I took my lunch break to head home, check on him, and drive him into the urgent care clinic. Now that he was dizzy, weak, and had an extremely sore throat it was justifiable (in his mind) to see a doctor. In addition I told him to mention all fleeting chest pains and numbness in his hands/arms, since he was there and get it taken care of right. Well he was diagnosed with strep throat, but with his other cluster of symptoms they wheeled him off to the Emergency Room for a cardiac work-up. Whoa!

One minute he was in for cold symptoms, next minute he is sitting in the ER all hooked up, poked, and examined. It happened so fast it was kind of scary…especially because he looked so terrible because of the strep and cold stuff that was going on. Not to the mention seeing the attentive, lightening speed the ER moves when patients come in with cardiac complaints. After a couple long hours in the ER all the blood work, x-rays, and a normal EKG he was sent home to have a comprehensive stress test a week later. Since then they've ruled everything out and we are left with good news, of a healthy heart, but no real answer as to what could be causing this numbness and occasional pain. At first we tossed around the idea of it being stressed induced… but really the past month has been the LEAST stressful (in every fashion) compared to all the others this past year. So for now he ignores it… and I get on him for making un-healthy choices! Lose the chips buddy!!

St. Pattys Day 2009

2009-03-14T19:35:00.000-07:00

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

To celebrate St. Patrick's day my Fargo home girls and I head out West to Jamestown, ND for the 31st Annual "Running O' the Green". It’s a pub crawl that begins around 2:00pm at the Frontier Fort Bar (up at the big Buffalo) and ends where ever and whenever you cross the finish line. (Thankfully the finish line is next to our hotel) That’s wondering from one end of town to the other making a stop for a drink at 9 different bars along the way. I was first introduced to this craziness back in 2001 when we lived in Jamestown, and have since brought along others to join in the fun, making this my 5th "run". Now don't be fooled… I'm not running this thing, and very few do. Although it is a test of your endurance…you must try to pace yourself if you want to be standing at the end of the day.

In recent years my totally cool auntie Denice has invited all us over to her house for Brunch with her gang… and few shooters to get the party started ;-) She has quiet the spread and much needed nourishment to start off the day. Not to mention my uncle Al who puts up with all us loud ladies in his house, and then drives us to the starting line. We have a blast at brunch… what a great way to start the festivities.

Everyone gets into the spirit and most people group together dressing in themes or matching outfits. This year our group took a spin back to 1984 and went as Flash dancers… "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!" Crimped hair, neon colors, oversized sweatshirt cut off the shoulder, leg warmers, bangle bracelets, fanny paks, jean skirts and fingerless gloves. As you can see we were one hot group of girls out to have some fun. No kids, No husbands, No Curfew!!

The race starts off with 1500 people heading down a Huge snowy hill… here is where you hope that those before you made good tracks otherwise you may end up taking the quick way down... on your ass. (We all made it on foot this year!) The jaunt to Bar #2 is the furthest distance, so we had to make a pit stop at the Tractor & Fleet Supply store for a bathroom break, but after that we were good to go and made it through 9 pit stops in only 4.5 hours… I think? You kind of lose track of time after a while. 10:00pm feels like 4:00am. Thanks to a great band we made it until 1:30am this year!! Whoo Hoo!

Of course we have many jokes, stories and do not tells from our St. Patty's Day runs, and this year was no different... Other than it meant even more me! Since moving away I've been missing them and just don't have the opportunity to get together with the girls as much as I'd like to (need to). Thanks for a great time ladies...

Happy Birthday Brady!

2009-03-13T18:44:00.000-07:00

On March 13th my little wild child turned one ! Given that title, its only fitting that I through him a wild "Jungle Party" for his big birthday. So we invited our USA family over to my parents for dinner (on his actual birthday) and as you can see he had lots of messy fun. Grandma's Lasagna was his favorite, but he was not to sure about cake at first. He wasn't fond of the whipped icing's texture, and kind of gagged on it, so freaked out a bit. But then when I helped him find the cake part, he was all over it

Since there are a bunch of little cousins running around these days we broke out a game of good ol' "Pin the Tail on the Donkey" for the kids. They had a good time laughing at the big kid (30 yr old cousin Jay) taking his turn. Brady certainly enjoyed the company of all his cousins, Aunts and Uncle's. And fortunately he's not a shy kid so warmed right up to them even though we don't get the opportunity to see them all that often.

So what is this little one year old up to? He's still cautiously walking along furniture and dares to take only a few steps without support. Back and forth from the chair - couch - coffee table is a fun little adventure. We just watch and hold our breath hoping that he'll stay on foot and not crash into the edge of the table too hard. Slowly but surely he's letting go and taking a few steps out into the openness of the living room…pauses…looks around… and says ah heck with it I'm faster crawling.

A few of his "tricks" include; clapping, signing milk & more, da da da da (just for the fun of it) and Mum Mumm Mum Mumm (when he needs something)~ gee he's already got this figured out. He likes to give kisses… if you say "give me kiss" and then pucker up, he opens wide and puts his mouth over yours. Some pretty wet kisses~ so hopefully he cleans that up before he goes after the ladies. He can answer a phone pretty good, "Ha" is how he answers, but he picks up the phone, holds it to his ear and even does the head tilt. The cutest one though is when you ask him "what does a lizard say" he pops his tongue in and out, in and out.

Some Favorites: Bathtime, carbs of all kinds, turning the pages of a book before you are ready, shaking and banging things, laughing with his big brothers, fishing around in the toilet bowl, chewing on shoes, riding his car, playing with the garbage can, opening kitchen cupboards, and standing up to the the big windows ~ just checking things out.

Some Dislikes: Being told No-No, having the bathroom door closed when someone is in there, being at ground level when the action is at counter height, and peas. No kidding… I'll sneak some peas in with a bite of corn or mashed potatoes and he spits out just the peas!

Fitting in, yet again.

2009-03-12T18:59:00.000-07:00

My first 2 weeks of work at the new job come to conclusion tomorrow. I'm feeling much better about this job change, as the staff are friendly and despite their longevity with the system, they still have fun and are open to change (me). The core crew of staff is only 6 deep and they all have 12+ yrs in the program or with SMDC health system. Being the newbie was a bit intimidating, but I'm always up for something new.

Its been almost 2 years since I facilitated groups, so I've been busy putting together a bunch of patient ed groups this past week. Really hoping I'd trigger some of my memory from those groups I once did or wanted to do. I'll be leading 8+ groups a week so I need a bit of an inventory. A little anxiety management, assertiveness, rational thinking, and self-esteem should be a good start. I'm not the hugest fan of facilitating groups, but they've got a more laid back philosophy and flexible nature that should give me some room to use my creativity and interest to its fullest. There's always room for growth and change.

Of course there are pitfalls to being the new man on board, and that happens to be my office~ or should I call it a closet. Unfortunately, the good views are earned by time put in. But hey… at least I have my own office, and don't have to share with anyone. I've had a good run of office mates and cubicle sharing over my SW career. Nothing pisses me more, than not being able to have a private conversation… Good bye to all those nosy colleagues listening and/or butting in, as if they were part of your conversation. I've got a door that can be shut.

Secondly there is the mental health left overs… In the health care system it is always a cat fight over space. Priority tends to fall in favor of the money makers (cardiology, oncology, clinics) leaving depts like mental health with the scraps. This means our intensive outpatient program is cleverly tucked away in a satellite building across the street from the other main buildings (all others happen to be conveniently connected by skywalk). Its loaned from the foundation, so of course they don't want to put any money into the aesthetics of the place. After all, we should just be grateful we have our own private space right. Sure there are positives with being segregated, but don't forget about us over here.

These severely depressed patients should be welcomed into a space that provides a sense of fresh ambition, healing, life and color. Not mis matched worn out, left over furniture, halls that flood when it thaws, treacherous intersection to cross at lunch and small group rooms. Funny thing is this was supposed to be a temporary arrangement (Gee flashbacks to MeritCare), but its going on 4 yrs now. Hopefully we'll be moving up to the top level this summer, which will provide a much better space and some views of Lake Superior. My fingers are crossed and if I'm lucky I may even get an office with a window :-)

Giggles galore

2009-03-09T19:36:00.000-07:00

With 3 boys the sillyness never ends at our house. I caught this particular giggle session during the big boys bath time. All it took to get Brady going was for Dylan to bang a toy against the side of the tub. Like usual, Brady always has to be where the action is, and so he pushes his way right to the tub's edge to play too. The problem is, he dips his arm in the tub, and since Dylan and Riley aren't very careful with the splashes, so he gets soaked.
Sorry I couldn't get the video to rotate, so you'll have to tilt your head.

The bumpy road to being one...

2009-03-05T19:02:00.001-08:00

Brady boy continues to explore his world and with it has come some "growing pains"...
Although those few steps from couch to coffee table are becoming more and more comfortable and happening hands free, the feet still aren't keeping up. So he's got himself a couple bruises on the cheek and chin from these attempts. Despite the falls, he's got pretty good balance and stands alone for a good chunk of time. He'll grab a toy, get to his feet and then stand there shaking his toy like a hot shot. I'm guessing in 2 weeks this fella will be off like a race horse. (Oh boy!)

In just one week Brady turns the big Numero Uno, so we've been busy getting rid of some of those "baby" things to truly give him big boy status. All this past week he's been bottle free~ well minus a fit that earned him a bottle at school when he saw all his other friends getting one. But otherwise he's taking his cup of milk great! And yes its milk... he's loving the cow's milk, and I'm loving passing over the formula aisle. Win - Win for us all.

From a young age we've learned that Brady likes to let you know what he wants. Although lacking the vocabulary to tell us, he certainly makes up for it by excersing his vocalization abilities. He's so good he's got Dylan and Riley (on their own free will) singing goofy songs or offering up their toys to the kid when he complains. And NEVER at the age of one would I have given Dylan and Riley Cheetos for snack... but when this guy sees what we've got and what he doesn't he carries on until he gets some too. He's got us all wrapped around his finger...when he screams we aim to please. (I think we've gotta stops this monster, before we're real sorry.)

Rooooarrrrrr

2009-03-01T19:42:00.000-08:00

The closer and closer we get to Birthday numero uno~ we've noticed Brady becomming more and more fun. His latest thing is to Roar like a Lion... now keep in mind this isn't a full chested loud roar, but a soft little "RAH" sound. So cute though, as he lifts an arm to mimic the action of a paw clawing at you. It started with a lion mask that Dylan and Riley were playing with one day, and now any time he sees this mask he lets out a "RAHHH". I'm hoping to catch a video of this little Lion, so be sure to check back to this post, in the coming week.

What's that odor?

2009-02-25T19:32:00.000-08:00

On our way home from school today, we were having ourselves a little chat in the van about the day's events. I asked the usual, did you have fun, what did you do, what did you have for lunch, etc. The in return they asked the same questions of me... Usually my day is pretty boring in their eyes but today I got to tell them that I couldn't eat my cereal at work this morning because it tasted like PAINT! Hmmmmm was the look on their face, as they wondered how that was so... I explained that because Daddy was painting the countertop with strong paint, the box of cereal in the cupboard must have absorbed the odor from the paint. "What's odor?" K~ took me a minute to try and make this comprehendable for them, but I knew it was a success, when Dylan said, "Like when I (Dylan) poop in the toliet and its still stinky the next time I go in." BINGO!!

Get me some Bug B' Gone... PLEASE!!

2009-02-22T17:53:00.000-08:00

In a matter of 7 days this nasty GI virus has managed to pass through every one of us...Literally... Vomiting, and/or dieareahah. Brady's messy diapers finally ended on day 7...so I thought! Just after I got him all washed up and into his jammies tonight he had another explosive one that sent him back to the tub!! Geez!
Thankfully grandma was here when I was sick, otherwise Brad might have lost his freakin mind with the kids and the mess of living around a half painted kitchen. The kids weren't hit as bad as Brad and I but 2 boys were still sent home from daycare during the week with the trots, so we were again juggling work and kids ALL week. Thankfully Brad seems to be coming around a bit more this evening... so I'm hoping we can have a normal start to the week. I've never had to deal with so much shit in my entire life... For example on Tuesday morning I had just put my shoes on to head out the door when Brad called me into Brady's room... "You gotta help me... I can't do this one on my own." As Brad unzipped Brady's pjs he unveiled poo from armpits down to his toes. I carefully held him at arm's length as we trekked across the hall into the tub. At 7:20am he was having a tubby and loving every minute as he smiled at me with his toothy grin. Scrubbed up and out the door I went...daddy to finish the rest. Oh but wait... I was reminded of this disaster 5 hrs later. After my new employee health screening at SMDC I stopped in the hospital cafe for a bite to eat. I took my seat and as I crossed my legs at the lunch table, I caught a glance of something on my shoe. Assuming it was winter slush-salt-dirt or whatever, I didn't think twice before swiping my napkin across it... but it wasn't coming off, so I wiped harder. Then realized it was POOP!! Nasty, stuck-on, POOP!! I suppose when I was carrying him butt naked from his room to the tub, a blob of poop fell off onto my shoe. Thankfully it looked like mustard, but still how embarrassing!
On the way out that day a co-worker was venting about her tough day, so to give her a little pick-me-up I shared my story... she was laughing so hard it brought tears to her eyes.

Moving Day

2009-02-08T19:14:00.000-08:00

Last Saturday was MOVING DAY... The long awaited day had finally arrived. A crew of 11 Denfield High school hockey players, and 2 trucks from "Johnson Brothers Furniture" (Thanks Larry and Connie) was our moving crew. Coach Smalley had those machines working an extremely efficient operation. From start to finish it took only 4 hours to move everything from the townhouse and storage to the new house... One of those hrs was spent throwing back 10 pizzas, few bags of chips, case of Mt Dew and a HUGE pan of Brownies. Those boys did a great job and we were so grateful for their help. They are a great group of kids, and we hope the little bit of dry land training we were able to provide them with will pay off in play-offs later this month ;-)
Even thing just came together like clock work. Our moms unpacked feverishly as I directed traffic. Dylan and Riley had a blast opening box after box of their toys in the toy room... they hadn't seen most of these toys in 9 months! So it was better than Christmas morning for them. Brady boy missed all the excitement as he was passed out in his play pen in the Master bath room for the whole 4 HOURS!! He's had a cold, and so this was a GREAT nap for him and us.
All and all it was a great quick move, and now the unpacking continues...

Paint Baby Paint

2009-02-06T18:27:00.000-08:00

The time is finally here... We've signed the papers, got the keys and its time to make our house "Our Home". After closing on the house Tuesday morning, we swung in and scoped it out. The owners before took great pride in the home and left it very clean, but they didn't have the best taste in style. So I had big plans to get the whole upstairs painted before we moved in. Everyone doubted me along the way, but after busting my ass for 4 straight days it paid off. Even though I put in about 12 hours a day, I didn't do it all on my own... God NO! Brad's parents are down visiting and have been working to death all week too. And although Brad was held up at work, he still did his share in the evenings. I think that we've gone through 15 gallons of paint and primer this week? That's first priming every wall and then painting 2 coats of color on over 1300 square feet of house.
Dylan and Riley's room was a little girls room before with bright purple walls. So that was a MUST, to make it live able for them. I did 2 walls dark gray, 2 walls light gray, and then put a big Hockey guy shadow (decal) up on one wall. Obviously they will have a cool hockey room when all is said and done. We've got lots of other hockey paraphernalia to put up, including hockey stick curtains and jersey's but that'll come once we get unpacked.
Brady's room was the MONSTER of a room. The smallest of our bedrooms, and it took the most work. It started with blue wallpaper half way up the wall, topped with a chair rail that wrapped around the room. Then a stripe of Choo-Choo train boarder at the ceiling. Sounds cute, but it wasn't it... It was dated! So we pulled off the chair rail... that was freakin' GLUED to the wall, and pulled the drywall paper right off all the way around the room. And because they didn't size (prepare the wall) before papering, the wall paper came off in 1 inch strips. What a bitch!! It took 2 days to get all the wall paper and glue backing off the wall. We used every technique imaginable to get this crap off the wall. Finally it came off. Ron then had to go around and repair the ripped up wall from the chair rail, with plaster mud, then sand it, and spray texture, before we could prime. Once we got the wall ready for paint, I did 3 walls a light baby blue, and the 4th wall a dark navy blue. Further down the road when I've got some time, I'm going to paint a border of Bright Green and Orange circles on the dark wall. Hard to describe and visualize, so I'll post pictures when I get to it.
The rest of the upstairs got lightened up (from country blue) to a light beige... white as Brad would say. I have to admit I was going for a nice open airy look, and was too cautious with the color. So yes it is light, just a shade too light, but there's no way in hell I'm climbing a ladder to re-paint these 15 ft walls for at least the next year. I'm hoping it'll come together once we get all our stuff in. This beige went into our bedroom, for now, as I didn't want to live with the green that was in there, and I haven't found a new bedspread that I love yet to pull together a room.
The master bath also got a tinting of the light beige/tan whatever it is... but then half the walls are a mocha brown. I also did this brown on a few accent walls in the living room/hallway area.
The kitchen is scoped out to be a 2 toned green, but we are planning to tackle that after we get moved in.
Really I've just set the foundation for what's to come with new furniture, art, and fabrics. I just wish I could do it all at once, and get it just perfect. But I know Perfection takes time ;-)

As if...

2009-02-04T19:04:00.000-08:00

...buying a home, and moving isn't enough to handle this week... So why not add a little more spice to the salad and take a new job too.

Just after Christmas I had the opportunity to interview with the SMDC (St.Mary's Duluth Clinic) Behavioral Health program, for a social work position in the adult partial hospital program. I had held this same position during my first year back in Fargo at MeritCare, so I knew what I was in for. However, I wasn't really looking to leave my current job at United Way, because I LOVE it so much. But after chatting with them and seeing the potential growth for the whole department I was interested. And then when they offered me the job, and threw a large salary increase at me, it was hard to say no...REALLY hard to say no. Plus down the road, being at SMDC will get me further, whereas United Way doesn't have much for any promising career advancements. Tough call to make, but I'm moving on and looking forward to working in mental health again.
In this position I will be facilitating a lot of groups, family sessions and of course care coordination. Partial Hospital is an intensive 5 day a week treatment program for people with severe depression, anxiety, and/or dual-diagnoses, with a 2-3 week length of stay. So you really get to know your patients and family, which is nice, but can also be exhausting. At this point SMDC doesn't have a program specific to addiction treatment (my interest), but could in the near future... so I've got my fingers crossed, and when that happens I'll be sure they bring my buddy Jenn in from Fargo to be the lead LAC, so we can once again work and play together everyday!!

Hockey- Truly a Family Sport

2009-01-15T09:07:00.000-08:00

A little background here... Growing up in a small town, where hockey didn't exist and the only youth sport was Pee Wee basketball, really left me clueless to the world of youth athletics. Pee Wee basketball was a simple program that grades 4-6 got to participate in on Saturday mornings over the course of 8-12 weeks. This included practices and games. The only gear you needed to have was a pair of tenny runners and shorts...oh yeah and for the girls a sports bra too ;-) Minimal commitment, but soooo much fun!
So here I am now as a Hockey Mom half way through my first season of Mite 1 Hockey (4-7 yr olds) and its just ridiculous. My kids are 4 yrs old and the commitment on their level and ours is INSANE!! They practice Tue & Thurs, with games e/o wknd. The dads flood the outdoor arenas one night a week (Monday) along with misc ice maintenance throughout the year. And the moms yearly commitment includes, 4 shifts in the concessions stand, and chaperone 2 elementary school dances (fundraiser). Not to mention all the other little fundraisers, and special events or help that is needed.
Let me give you an example of what our last 2 weeks have looked like with the hockey schedule.
Mon Jan. 5th Brad floods rink
Tues Jan 6th Boys have practice
Wed. Jan 7th Katie works concessions
Thur Jan 8th Boys have practice
Sat Jan 10th Boys have 2 games & Brad misses runs the clock
Sun Jan 11th Boys have 1 game & Katie works concessions
Mon Jan 12th Brad floods rink
Tue Jan 13th Boys have practice
Wed Jan 14th Katie takes boys for hockey pics (Brady in tow, cuz Brad is @ work)
Thur Jan 15th Boys have practice
Just a tally here for you... Our family was at the hockey club 10 out of 11 nights. Now that is ridiculous!!

All the bundling up everyone needs to do because its outdoor hockey doesn't help either. Thankfully the kids seem to be enjoying and so I go along with it. I just to keep my complaining out of ear shot and mumble under my breath lugging everything and everyone out the door on hockey days. Hopefully with a little conditioning I'll get used to it... cuz I guess I'm in it for the long haul.

P.S. now you know why I am falling behind with my blog.

The littlest things can make you laugh

2009-01-12T19:31:00.000-08:00

One afternoon back in December, Brady sat in his highchair enjoying a little snack of "Kix" cereal when along comes his big brother Dylan. The little sphere's sparked and idea...Dylan decided it would be fun to blow the cereal across his little brothers highchair tray. Hop, skip and whoosh they fly across the tray. The end result... over 5 minutes of squealing, laughing fun. Although he sits off to the side, Riley cheers them on. Mommy finally grabs the camera to catch the tail end of this goofiness to share with all of you.
(Click on the arrow > under the picture above to see the video)

Another one bites the dust...

2009-01-02T18:34:00.000-08:00

2008 has blown past us, so here we are at start of another year. Looking back over the past year, I'm certain that we set some records or something... How many BIG life changing events can you encounter in 12 months? Lets see for the us it would be...
Said goodbye to our family Dog (Bauer)
Brady (Child #3) was born
Brad took a new job in another state
We packed up a house and moved, all in 3 weeks
Sold a house in 30 days
Katie took a new job
Boys started a new daycare
Bought a new van
and the best for last we got a FANTASTIC house
... and all the stuff in between.
I think just 2 or 3 of the above would have been enough for the year, but instead we got all them all... and one right after another!

Its easy to get wrapped up in all the craziness of 2008, but I'm thankful that we all left it in one piece... Healthy and Happy. I just worry that 2009 will be a little boring compared to what we've just gone through?!

I guess as long as we are still young, why not spend 2009 diving into more new things and chasing after our healthy boys... ok maybe a little less chasing and some more quiet moment enjoying. I'm really looking forward to moving into our house, meeting new neighbors and really "SETTLING IN" to our home. Its weird how even after 7 months of living in this townhouse, it just doesn't feel like home. Renting just doesn't give you the same home cozy feeling like owning a home does... add that onto a new city, and I still feel like a transplant and not a true Duluthian.
I look forward to the kids running around the roomy house and yard- finally having tons of space to play, Brad puttsing around his new workshop-doing projects for me, and me making the house our home with a little painting and decorating- oh, yeah and then a little relaxing in my Jacuzzi tub :-) Once all that kicks in I'm certain I'll be feeling right at home.

Wii wish you a Merry Christmas

2008-12-25T18:11:00.000-08:00

No I'm not actually blogging on Christmas... I'm too busy spending time with my family. How it works is that I pre-wrote this entry, but couldn't publish it until after Christmas morning, when Brad's sister and family opened their presents...because we got a Wii as a family gift from Brad's parents a couple weeks before Christmas when they came to visit, and couldn't spoil the surprise of the Wii gift his sister and family would be getting. So I had to keep a secret!
Of course after the surprise of a Nintendo Wii, we had to try it out right away...

Brad was trying out his boxing stance... what a knockout ;-)

The boys had a great time celebrating Christmas with Nana and Papa a week early. In the back ground you can see our over ornamented little tree that we set up in the townhouse. It is actually a tree that you hang on your wall, so it doesn't go all the way around. Which was alright considering we had to tie it to the wall so when Brady would give it tug it wouldn't fall over.

Brady was loving the big red bow, and the wrapping paper but could really care less what was inside.

Happy Birthday to ME!!

2008-12-23T08:29:00.000-08:00

Yes its my Birthday and I'm not about to hide... Mainly because it the last one I celebrate in my twenties. Thirty doesn't scare me a bit, but it does sound so much older than those figures starting with a two. A couple weeks ago, I took a picture with the 2 other gals that work in my program to send out with Holiday cards for the other 2-1-1 programs in the state. These young gals (22, 23) actually made me look old. You can tell I'm the oldest just by simply looking at the picture? Is it because I dress more professional or is it the fine lines and start of crows feet that appear when I smile? Whatever it is, I'm not liking it!! Sure 3 kids make me feel well beyond my age, only because of the experiences and priorities in my life, but now I look OLD too? YIKES!! I gotta get me a good facial regime to stop this aging process, before I look like a Sharpe.

As for celebratory plans today... My dear husband is taking me for lunch, as the boys after hockey this evening, and I've got a ton of packing to do to head out of town for the Holiday. So pretty low key. I did get to open my gifts from all my boys yesterday, and was pleasantly surprised with the Spa la la la la package I received of slippers, bath robe, perfume, and spa gift certificiate. I'm so glad they finally caught onto the need for a little mommy pampering. To all those reaching out on facebook, Thank you for the birthday wishes. Another year of greatness under my belt ;-)

Going no where fast

2008-12-22T08:41:00.000-08:00

Alright now that winter is in full force up here in the Northland, I've had the opportunity to experience the adventure of driving up Duluth's snowy, icy, steep hills. You see Duluth has these gorgeous brick roads downtown, that slick up with the slightest bit of winter precipitation. And it just so happens I work at the absolute bottom of the hill and live at the very top of the hill. So every day when I leave work I'm challenged with driving straight up the steep hill to get home. Of course the quickest way to and from work is out of the question as it is one of the steepest slopes, so I've had to find an alternative route, and even that leaves me spinning. Just yesterday I had to back down the hill, because the van in front of me was stuck... He couldn't make it any further up the hill. So he had to back down and take a side street to try a different angle. Thankfully I with a a running start I was able (but barely) to make it up the block... as I spun rubber I slowly inched along, but made it...all this for just one city block to catch the "main road". There are many different points throughout the city that the natural rolling hills have you spinning for traction...man is this crazy or what. I find myself panicked with wonder if this will be one of the times where i'll be going no where fast. Brad has a very curvy, steep track to and from work as well and on a daily basis he is witness to ditched and backing up vehicles. You'd like they'd be a little more on top of salting and plowing around here? Guess that's one of the consequences of city governments cut backs!

And now that we're in the midst of last minute shopping, the roads are full of retards flying around trying to get all their stops in on one night. (Why must people wait until the last minute?) But when you are jammed bumper to bumper you're certainly going no where fast. This is a huge disadvantage of living in the shopping district this time of year... the drive that normally takes us 12 minutes from daycare now takes 25-30 minutes. Good thing the kids nap on the way home, but even so my nerves are shot by the time we get home. (Which isn't a good thing when everyone is crabby for supper, and all you want to do is relax for a second.) Maybe Santa will bring me some red and blue lights I can put on the van... maybe that get me home a little faster some days.

Duluth Height Hornets

2008-12-14T19:21:00.001-08:00

This past week the boys got their first team jerseys... Dylan sports #4 and Riley is #5 for the Duluth Heights Hornets.

Dylan has really stepped things up this past week. He has ditched the scooter skate, and now strides using both legs, and gets around pretty quick.

Riley is following suit, and is usually the only kid out there that has fun the whole time. Most of the others end up crying or whining about the cold, and have to go in to warm up.

Despite the cold temps and struggles of getting in all their layers, and all their gear twice a week, they have a good time, and don't complain (any more that is). They stick out the cold and put in a good practice each time.
Next weekend is their first Jamboree. Two games on Saturday, and one on Sunday... no goalies, small nets, and two 25 minute halves of running time... Lets play hockey!

2824 Parkwood Lane

2008-12-12T18:26:00.000-08:00

Much like our Fargo home... Looks are deceiving. This "raised ranch" is 2738 sq ft ~ 4+ bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, 2 living rooms, Huge kitchen, dinning area, mud room, walk-in pantry, office area, large storage room with work bench, HUGE unfuninished area in basement, 2 stall garage with wall to wall storage and a huge workshop area, new 25 x 12 deck, and a PERFECT back yard. There is so much roominess I LOVE IT!!

Here are few pictures of our "soon to be" house. Now keep in mind that these pictures were taken during the home inspection, so its not our stuff, choice of wall color or decor. Nor is it our mess. Any its a visual to show the space and layout.

Entering the house from the attached garage is this lovely mudroom/laundry room, that any mother of young kids would envy. Tons of closet space, and durable ceramic tile for all those wet, muddy shoes and gear and the washer right there to toss them in. This room excites me the most!

Brad is relaxing in the upstairs living room that you enter upon coming through the front door. The opposite wall with the big french doors lead you to the deck overlooking the SWEET yard.

The tree line comes up the sides of the yard to give us privacy and containment. When there are leaves on the trees its so thick you feel like you are on the edge of a forest. We're cleverly tucked back in a quiet development, so you rarely see or hear traffic. The homes in this neighborhood are very beautiful, and we've seen lots of kids, during our couple visits- so looking forward to a living in a great neighborhood.

This is the fabuolous master bath :-) The wall color has to go, but the tub can stay! A walk-in closet, shower, toliet (of course) and nice long sink/counter top of the master bath.

I'm super excited to have a kitchen big enough for all of us... and all our stuff. Everyone hangs out in the kitchen, and you are always stepping over kids, toys, and each other. Well not in this baby. There is a spot for everyone and everything. The long counter is an eat at bar and then the dinning area is just off that with a big bay window. Again terrible choice of colors, so with some new counter tops and a little paint, it'll be perfect.

I'm already mentally moving in, and planning paint and furniture placement. I just need a little elbow grease... so watch for details on a painting and a moving party, and we'll see ya then ;-)

We got a house!!

2008-12-07T21:15:00.000-08:00

After backing out from the building idea, and placing a long shot offer on a house in September we were exhausted and decided to lay low key for awhile. It was quite discouraging and we had had enough house hunting for a while. As mentioned before the housing market is disgusting out here. Old, outdated homes with no backyards for lots of money~ not of interest. Duluth certainly isn't the on the up and up for new development...I guess building on rock isn't so cheap and easy.
Anyway the house that we made the long shot offer on in September, continued to sit on the market, so just a few weeks ago out of curiousity we had our realtor inquire about it to see if they had changed their minds and would be willing to entertain our offer again. They came back with a rock bottom price that was almost $50,000 less than their original listing price... and only $8,000 more than our offer. So we went for it! Throw in all appliances (inc washer/dryer), play structure and window treatments and we've made up the difference. After a week long scuffle of paper between their lender and relocation we are good to go and signed the purchase agreement last Friday, locking in on a 5.125% interest rate :-)

The sellers are in a tough spot on this deal. The husband was relocated to Minneapolis for work (already living there), and with the financial loss on the sale of their home they were working with a relocation company to help with the process. Now I'm not sure how relocation company's work and what help they give to recoup the costs, but I do know they got in our way, and drug out the process to getting a purchase agreement signed. Part of the issue is that we are buying the home for $23,000 LESS than what they paid for it in 2006. So as a seller they have to bring a big wad of cash to the closing table. YIKES-crappy for them... But Sooooo good for us ;-) We were good on our end... just waiting for them to get their crap together.
We set Feb 3rd as a closing day (moving in day) as we are still tied to our townhouse lease until April 30th. Unless our unit gets re-rented before April we will be paying rent and a mortgage. That would really suck- so If you know anyone looking for housing in Duluth PLEASE send them my way. Thankfully we have the ability to close and move in earlier should we find re-renters.
Its a great house, with lots of space (2738 sq ft) and a gorgeous back yard. I'll post some pix and more specific next time.
FINALLY FINALLY FINALLY FINALLY is all I've got to say in closing.

Rockin N' Rolling

2008-12-03T18:57:00.000-08:00

Gosh he just can't get any closer to taking off and gettin' on the go than this. He gets on his hands and knees and rocks and rocks and rocks... almost like he's trying to build enough momentum so he can shoot out of the gates and sprint to the other side of the room.
You can see here the determination and sigh of frustration.

What started as backward scooting has turned into backwards crawling, and now he's gone to taking 1 or 2 strides forward before throwing in the towel and resorting to the good ol' barrel roll. Its exciting to see him on the brink of a new milestone, but I'm not quite on top of the child proofing thing, yet. So I've got some work ahead of me this week.

All I want for Christmas is my 2 Front Teeth...

2008-12-02T18:42:00.001-08:00

...Nope its not the big boys... But the little man. We are talking the first round here... He's got bulging top gums with little pearly whites trying to poke through. A swipe in there today finds one of them just breaking the surface and faintly sharp to the touch. I'm torn with the excitement of sprouting new teeth and sadness of saying goodbye to his toothless grin. Its just one more thing that proves he's growing up too fast.

We knew something was up this past weekend, as he just wasn't his happy self. And no wonder with these kinda choppers making their way- I'd be crabby too!

Moving Uplander

2008-11-30T18:23:00.000-08:00

There was no time better than now to Move on Up and upgrade the ol' Mini van. The thermostat was slow to heat, the brakes were worn from age and the sloping hills of Duluth, and the power window was starting to slip off the track. So instead of pumping the money into repairs, we choose to put it toward a down payment of a new van- with 100,000 mile warranty. What we got was a silver Chevrolet Uplander (see picture). Its rated pretty highly and has all the other things that are important... that's Brad's department- I just care about how it drives and what it looks like. The first thing the boys noticed was that they have their own little speakers in the back by their seats. The old van had the speakers in the far back, which was usually blocked by luggage or the stroller. So now they get to hear their tunes loud and clear.
Its funny how you just get used to things... Not only the way a new vehicle rides smoother, or heats faster. But how much more firm the seat cushions are, and how sensitive good brakes are. A little getting used to, but there's no complaining here. I've never been so excited about Mini-Van!!

Our Little Thanksgiving

2008-11-28T17:57:00.000-08:00

Like previously noted we celebrated a quiet Thanksgiving at home, just the 5 of us. We were pretty traditional...watched the Macy's parade, hung out in jammies most of the day, and I browsed the flyers throughout the day for a total of 4+ hours- carefully making my 4 am shopping plans. But really overall we just enjoyed the day together without any interruptions. Dylan and Riley provided the lovely center pieces~ that they made at their school. And they were excellent helpers with setting the table.

Brotherly Love

2008-11-27T17:45:00.000-08:00

I've been trying to get a cute picture of the 3 boys to put on desk at work, and needless to say its a little difficult. I can't seem to get all 3 looking at the camera, with anything but a goofy face, or at least their whole face showing. There's always a hand or head in front of someone, or they are horsing around and not paying attention to my photo shoot. So although I didn't get that PERFECT picture of my crew, it captured their true brotherly love.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

2008-11-26T06:28:00.001-08:00

This year will be our first Thanksgiving as crew of 5... and no more! I am thankful that our family is complete, and that we are all in good health- minus the sniffles and coughs. This Thanksgiving we will find ourselves celebrating in Duluth, with a small yet still pretty traditional meal, as it will only be us. The turkey has been substituted with a turkey breast (we don't like dark meat) and since Brad doesn't like green beans, we'll be without the green bean casserole. I'm the only on who likes sweet potatoes, so that's out the door too. And I don't know how to make pumpkin pie (nor care to) so we'll have apple crisp instead. Of course we could have gone and bought a pie, but then your house wouldn't smell like yummy baking. The important thing is that we'll be together and have a great day, loafing around in our Pj's watching the Macy's Thanksgiving parade on TV. I'm hoping that for that one day we can forget about making any decisions (new house, new van, new babysitter) and just enjoy simplicity.
Although I'll miss all the other family that we usual spend Thanksgiving with, I'm secretly excited to celebrate and start new traditions with my kids...like Mac & Cheese as a side dish ;-)
Hope you all have a Thankful Day as well.

Talking to my Angel

2008-11-24T19:34:00.000-08:00

Last week I made the trip back home with the 3 kids, to attend my Great Grandma Clara's funeral. Unfortunately Brad was held up with big events at work, and couldn't come along, which made the drive home even harder. Not because of the kids or driving conditions, but the solitude of a 4 hour drive. As the kids slept I cried, reminiscing of childhood memories with my gma, and the special moments I was able to share with her over the last 28 yrs of my life.
When I was born, I became the 5th generation in my gma's family tree. And then 24 yrs later I was able to grant her first rank in the 5th generation as Dylan and Riley became her Great-Great Grandchildren. Then 4 yrs latter she was able to welcome g-g-grandchild #3 with Brady's arrival.
At 95 yrs of age she was still on top of her game...Lived on her own with very little assistance, very sharp mind, and although she'd disagree with you, very able body...I think she thought 95 yr olds should still be able to do cart wheels? All this brings her death even harder to take. What was first thought to be flu symptoms turned alarming and into a GI obstruction that her body became poisoned by and she just couldn't fight it off. As her systems began to shut down surgery was just not an option. Less than 24 hrs latter she was gone.
It was especially hard for me to see my mom and family mourning Gma's death. She wasn't a grandma to my mom... she was a Mom... This struck deeper. As a teenager my mom's mother abandoned her family, leaving my grandpa to parent 5 young kids on his own. Gma was a widow and so really took them in, to help raise her 5 grandkids. Long before gma was a saving grace, but it was during the tough teenage years she was the one my mom looked up to. She was there to lean on when times were tough, and there to cheer her on to victories. The touching thing that I've now been able to see from their relationship, is how she showed my mom what being a gma is all about. My mom always makes her time with the boys so special...she always puts them first, encourages them to explore new things, teaches them to respect others and never forgets to reward them with special treats, just like gma Clara did for us.

So as I drove down Hwy 2 I started to think... If I could have one last conversation with Gma, what would I say...

Grandma Clara,
When I think back to our special times together I'm reminded of many different things. Mush for breakfast, Mac & Cheese with sugar on top for lunch, fresh vegetables from your garden for supper and strawberry malts for bedtime snack. I remember spending many days playing around the farm; playing out in the open well spout, swimming in the ditch water, exploring the vacant buildings, goofing around in the old outhouse, weeding the garden (eating the strawberries), and riding bike around your triangle flower garden...I swear gma we didn't mean to run over your pretty flowers, just took the corner too tight and Opps! The times we were forced indoors, I loved playing restaurant at your basement bar, and using all your 7-up to make it even more real. Oh and you had the fastest carpet steps I've ever seen!! And when that was called off, the laundry shoot was pretty fun too...The catch box at the bottom was a great hiding space;-) I know I share a lot of the same stories as many of my cousins, and aunts and uncles- every kid had adventures at your house. No matter what it was, it was always fun at grandmas house. Even when you tried to install the fear of the Hustamonic! You always made us feel special, grandma. I loved spending time at your house.
As an adult, I looked forward to our weekly Saturday calls, to tell you what the babies were up to. Even though we couldn't visit often when Dylan and Riley were little, you always kept tabs on us, to make sure they were doing well. I enjoyed sharing their milestones, and stories with you. I wanted you to watch them grow like you did with me. When Brady came along you did the same... I'll miss those calls. I'm so glad you got to meet my boys, grandma. I'm so proud of them and honored to share them with you... Your 5th generation. I'm so glad you got to squeeze them, hold them and give them a kiss on the cheek. I hope they can picture your face forever. They will always be reminded of you, and how much you loved them.
Grandma I am so thankful you were there for my mom when she was growing up. You gave her a role model to look up to and values to what being a mother is all about. You gave her and taught her unconditional love. The same love that has trickled down, and will continue to trickle down the generations. You always put family first, and went to great lengths to make sure we were all taken care of, it was never about you, you brought us all together.
There's so much more I want to say, and I don't want to end our conversation here, nor say good bye. So if its alright with you I'd still like to check in every once in awhile...Through my thoughts... I'll think of you often and you help guide me when I go astray. I Love you Grandma...

Nothing in particular...

2008-11-13T20:00:00.000-08:00

Not much going on night...Just enjoying the Thursday night TV line up. And in peace and quite, as I put all the kids to bed before 8:00 and sent Brad out with a buddy for beers. The only 2 shows that really matter to me are Grey's Anatomy and ER...he knows this! But every week during those shows, its always something...he's munching on chips, crinkling the bag extra loud, or playing on his phone making it beep, ring and sing or mimicking the shows, or poking at me, all just to annoy me! So tonight I treated myself and got rid of him. It was so nice!!! Maybe I can get his Wednesday night hockey moved to Thursdays... then I'd never have this problem again ;-)

Ah what else is there to ramble about? The weather... Over the years my father-in-law has rubbed off on me a bit, and now I talk more about the weather. I not near as extreme as he though= I don't watch the weather channel all day or follow the "systems" like he does. But the topic tends to come up in my conversations more than it ever did before. (Wait-Is this a sign of aging?...nah) So we've had a few flurries here this week, but nothing thats accumulated and stuck around. Some slow, cold, misty rain and the occasional gust of winds. Haven't seen the big Gales of November on Lake Superior yet either...hope they don't decide to stay away our first year here. Apparently the Gales make waves around 16 feet high, that then smash into the rocky shore like crazy. People actually surf the waves, they are so big. Sounds cool, I just hope I get to see them.
Of course the boys are excited for the snow, and every time they see snowflakes they comment "Oh...its soon gonna be Christmas time." Not yet my dears- we haven't had Thanksgiving yet.
Oh, one more thing... In case my Brother in-law Mike (Huge Packer Fan) is reading this... Go Vikes! Hopefully the beer made your loss a little easier last weekend. (I don't follow football at all, but couldn't miss an opportunity to rub salt in the wounds- GO Minnesota.)

Fine Example...

2008-11-12T18:52:00.000-08:00

So this evening my observations were proven factual.

Brady watched from a distance quickly inching his way in for a closer look. Soon after he stretched and scooted his butt a little he was within reach of the race track and took over from there.

After a few laps around the track the temptation gave in... He grabbed a hold of the dump truck and train, giving them a good slob...

Dylan quickly snatched them back. Whata ya know... full of drool, so he had to use his sleeve to wipe it all off.

It wasn't long before Brady took over the track...literally!

Steamroller: Destroys all in its path.

2008-11-12T11:26:00.000-08:00

Brady has successfully figured out how to get around, without hopping on a hip... His rolling has become WILD!! He can get from one corner of the room to the other in no time at all. Trust me I know... He's recently discovered the glass door on the TV stand and visits it often. He likes to slap at, and see his reflection~ I can only imagine what he's thinking when he can see himself and things in behind his image, but can't get through to touch them. He spends time starring in at the radio with wonder... "Ah the lights, buttons, knobs and gadgets! If only I could get my hands on it!" ;-)
Last night he got ahold of his big brother's Marshmallow shooter (one of those PVC craft show toys) and rolled around like an army guy, until his leg got hung up on the excersaucer...Then came the cry for help. He's pretty darn close to rocking on his knees and taking off in a full crawl. But for now he's got the back scoot and barrel roll down pat, and will just go with that.

Dylan and Riley are both enjoying and disliking their little brothers mobility. They like to wrestle around with him, and coax him with toys to see if he'll come get it... a fun little game. But there is a downside this... Poor Brady isn't welcome to participate in all their big boy business. Instead of being content to just sit and watch what they were doing, now he wants to get right in there... and DESTROY!! No more reading books, drawing, or playing "Big Boy" toys in the Living Room, cuz Brady will tear your pages, eat your crayons and slob your Ninja Turtle, and thats not cool. I get a little kick out of it when he gets right in there, but do get tired of hearing "Brady SLOBBED on my toy Mommy." They are quickly learning its no longer the little toys you gotta keep out of his reach but ALL toys. He He He He... Its just the beginning my dears!!

Cute Moments

2008-11-07T19:16:00.000-08:00

From what I recall, Dylan and Riley never seemed to mind hoods and hats on their heads or getting bundled up for the cold as babies or toddlers, or even now. Brady on the other hand...extends his belly, grunts and moans, and wrestles with his mitts, hoods and hats. That kid whips off his toque as soon as you look away. However this was one moment that he actually didn't mind his cute little hood.

We were getting ready to leave the house the other day, and he was patiently waiting for the rest of us... just sitting there looking so cute with his little tassel hoodie.

Most days there is always a basket of clean laundry around, just waiting to get folded... and since the Laundry Queen hasn't been here for a while and won't be here until next month... I've recruited the boys to help out. 97% of the things are left for Mommy to fold, but they do a great job with socks, washcloths and under ware.

Happy Halloween

2008-11-01T11:47:00.000-07:00

This year we spent our Halloween trick-or-treating with the ghosts and goblins out at Winnipeg Beach, MB. My 2 Ninja Turtles and little Devil, were excited to be out with their vampress cousin Sydney, and on the other end I'm pretty certain the Canadian Aunties loved the visit from special trick-or-treaters this year. We got a late start, but the weather was perfect, so after stopping in at all the relatives we hit the street and they made a haul.

The little devil was tuckered out, and went home for an earlier bed time, but my SIL Jodi and I took the big ones to a few more places. This is what I remember the most from trick-or-treating as a child... going door to door in the dark night. The 3 of them would run up to the door, and instead of ringing the door bell, they counted 1-2-3 and then yelled "TRICK-OR-TREAT!" As soon as they saw the person coming to the door, they'd excitedly jump up and down and hold their bags out for the candy. After a polite "Thank you" they'd run off to the next house, and repeat. At one point between houses, Dylan started chanting pumping his fist in the air, "Halloween. Halloween, Halloween." Things were super exciting until we got to the really spooky house... with a graveyard, fog, and scary music playing in the yard. They stopped dead in their tracks but then hesitantly followed behind all of us, realizing that was a better option than standing there alone. But in the end I was the one that got spooked at this stop, when a huge spider dropped from the sky right onto my head. There was a guy on the roof, who dropped a spider tied to the end of a fishing rod on my head, while the kids were getting their candy. I gasped like a chicken and blushed like a fool. We finally had to call it a night, because we had no where else to store the candy.

As you can see these kids got sooooo much candy its unbelievable, and truthfully we didn't stop at that many places. It was the Aunties and grandparents that spoiled them.
I thought Halloween was over and done for the year, but during our visit to Target last weekend, we found the 90% clearance sale on left over Halloween stuff, and Grandma scored Vampire capes for the guys, and I got them a warewolf and Ninja costume for $3 a piece... For that price how can you not add to your costume collection, and make for some scary play.

"When I grow up I'm gonna be a Doctor"

2008-10-27T19:24:00.000-07:00

They said it themselves, without any provoking...WHY??? Dylan and Riley have come to the conclusion that if you are Doctor you don't have to get shots!

Today I had the joy of taking all 3 kids for their flu shots, by myself. Brad was stuck at work, and with a busy week ahead today was the only chance to take advantage of the Blitz...So I braved it alone.
As soon as I picked them up from school and broke the news to them, things went downhill. There was kicking (literally) and whining all the way there..."Why can't we just go home, and have supper Mommy?"... "No, No, No Mommy this isn't the way home" Upon arrival Dylan sat in his seat crying and refusing to get out of the van, until finally I was able to reason with him, that Mommy would go first and that if it hurt Mommy he didn't have to get his flu shot ;-) (Guess they are still pretty traumatized from their recent 4 yr old vaccinations- 4 shots each on that trip!)

So we get in, register and wait our turn... things are looking pretty good, as we wait I'm bribing their bravery with treats and special activities when we get home. We are called in, and they enter the cubicle cautiously. I go first...I put on a brave face, and didn't even flinch. But just the sight of the needle had them shaking. They both stood up against the wall opposite of me, with fear in their eyes... You'd like they'd seen a ghost. When she asked whose next they both nominate the other and step even further away. (Now mind you I have Brady sitting on my lap, so that gives me limited mobility, and no where to safely sit him, while I wrestled them down) There was no talking one of them into willing going first, so in their scurrying to get away I was able to snag Dylan by the arm, and pull him onto my lap (Brady on the other leg). He's kicking and screaming (seriously), and I'm not letting go. I'm trying my best to talk some reason into him at this point, and its not working. I'm now just moments from grabbing the damn needle and poking him myself to get this over with. But thankfully the gal caught on that I wasn't gonna let him out of it, so it was just gonna have to happen with his cooperation. So she stuck the kid at first chance. As soon as she poked him, he instantly stopped his fit, looked at her and didn't say a word...It was over, and so was the drama. With the safety of a Tasmanian Devil band-aid in place he reported "That didn't hurt that much." Arghhhh!!! All the while, Brady is chewing on the stickers initially used to bribe Dylan, and Riley is practically shaking and looks so anxious that he could throw up. Anyway- No time for the classic "I TOLD SO", so instead I use the teachable moment and had Dylan convince Riley that it really didn't hurt and that he was more scared than anything.
Riley tried to change the plan, requesting to go upstairs and "just get the water squirted in my nose." The preface to this is, earlier we had discussed the option of the Flu Mist, explaining that its kind of like getting water squirted in your nose. But I didn't want to run to another floor in the clinic for the mist nor chance their poor cooperation with a misting dose. So I went with the easy poke and go- assuring they get the full dose. Well Riley's odd comment got me weird looks from the nurse, and led me to lie to my child...I had to get him to believe they were all out of the Flu Mist (Sorry Riley). With that the brave solider hopped up and took it like a pro... some hesitation, but much more cooperative than his brother.

Next up is Brady boy... completely oblivious to what his big brothers just experienced, as he was preoccupied with sucking on stickers... Dropped the drawers, took the needle, cried a bit, gave a smile and grabbed for his sucker too.

After many praises, hugs, kisses and high fives, the crew was out the door and loaded back in the van. While enjoying their suckers (before dinner even) on the way home is when Dylan and Riley discussed their plan to become Doctors. Dylan stated, "I'm gonna be a Doctor so I don't have to get a shot." "Yeah me too, we just give shots all the day" Riley added, "We just have to find a room, that doesn't already have a doctor." I didn't want to burst their bubble, but had to assure them for future reference, that everyone gets shots, and the bigger you are the less they hurt because you aren't scared any more. "Yeah Mommy you were Brave, I will be too when I'm old". I really do hope they grow up to be smart, helping doctors... as long as I'm not stuck paying for all that schooling.

"C" is for Cookie

2008-10-19T20:04:00.000-07:00

Yummy Yummy Yummy... Doesn't this cookie look Yummy?

How about now?

Brady just loved sucking this cookie. He was "chew" (suck) on one end for a little while and then flip it around to give the other end some action, and so on and so on. He had so much gunk in between his little fingers, and all over his face. Good thing he didn't grab his hair with those yucky hands.

Oh yeah... What big boy doesn't want a little sippy cup action? So we diluted some Apple Juice and let him try it out. Surprisingly he caught on right away. I just gave him a sip with the plug out, so he knew juice came from the mouth piece. And then put the plug back in, and handed it over.
As you can see he knew what to do with out any problems. Except he gets a surprised reaction when he takes a big pull and has a mouthful of cool juice. It wasn't long into the whole sippy cup thing, before he figured out that "Hey this makes a pretty cool noise, when I bang it on the highchair tray... and these cool little handles let me keep a good grip when I fling it around." Dylan and Riley thought it was pretty cool that Brady is learning to use a cup, and that now they can share their juice with Brady.

Boo at the Zoo

2008-10-18T19:43:00.000-07:00

In the spirit of the Spooky season we took the boys out to the Boo at the Zoo event. All the kids dress up in costume, and then trick-or-treat their way around the zoo, collecting candy as they go. Even with the huge mass of people, it wasn't bad at all. The weather was perfect... warm, sunny and no wind. Dylan and Riley were pumped to wear their Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle costumes, and got tons of compliments along the way. I think most of the comments came from parents our age, who remembered watching TNMT when we were kids. (All good things come back at least once) Dylan as you can guess was dressed at Leonardo (Blue) and of course Riley in red as Raphael.
It was cute to see all the other costumes, and run around in the fun of Halloween. The boys still aren't obsessed with the whole trick or treat thing, so this was a fun way to celebrate, and get a little more use out of their costumes.
Brady slept off and on while we were out, and since his costume hasn't arrived in the mail yet, he went just as his cute little self.

There is Freedom outside of healthcare...

2008-10-15T19:17:00.000-07:00

Over the past month I've been out of the office a bunch and on the road...Something very different from the 6 years spent within the walls of MeritCare. In addition to the supervision of the call center, I travel the region performing outreach to those other communities we serve. This has sent me to the smaller communities of Hibbing, Virginia, Cloquet, Moose Lake and more. Its been a great opportunity to see the beautiful scenery of NE Minnesota. And at the perfect time of the year, as the leaves are turning. The drives so far have been within 90 miles of Duluth, so nothing thats keeping me from home in the evening, but as I soon venture to the far northeast of Ely or Grand Marais, I may have to take the family and make it a little get-a-way trip. There are some pretty nice sky resorts up there at the tip of NE MN that'll we'll have to check out. Brad and the boys can ski, and I'll just check out the spa :-)
Aside from the traveling liberties I get to wear jeans EVERY FRIDAY!! And... I don't have to pay for it! While at MeritCare you'd have to pay $25+ so you could wear jeans 5 days out of the whole year. Ironically that money went to United Way. Even though I don't have to pay to wear jeans every week, I still donate to United Way, for the fun of it.
Speaking of United Way... Our fundraising campaign is successfully underway. With the crappy economy some may not be able to give as much as before, but the important thing is that they still give what they can. Hopefully we reach our goal this year, as the need is even greater within those agencies we fund. And although I really have nothing to do with the campaign I still need to give a pitch to "LIVE UNITED". I just finished my quarterly report and found that there is a 44% increase in referrals (through 2-1-1)to basic need services (food, housing, financial assistance) from this time last year. All the more reason to give to your local United Way.

Cheering for Cheerios

2008-10-13T18:44:00.000-07:00

Just the other morning I was dropping the boys off at daycare and as I was pulling Brady out of his car seat he smiled and I got a glimpse of this little white spot on his lower gum. Sure enough it was the start of a little tooth...just a little sharp point was poking through, but its a start. That same day was his first go with cheerios (cut in half). He rolled it around and around, before attempting to swallow. Each attempt was followed by a slight gag, until he figured it out and was alright with the sensation.

His little fingies aren't quite coordinated to pick up half a cheerio, so he whines until you feed him more. When he does get it in hand there's some fumbling and if it doesn't hit his lap, he's got his whole hand in his mouth trying to get a munch. When that happens the whole house cheers... cheering him on to try it again. He just smiles and shows his little white peaking tooth.

We've got a date...

2008-10-08T19:31:00.000-07:00

Between work, home, and kids, its easy to see that Brad and I haven't had much free time to get out and mingle with other couples. But we've finally got ourselves a date for this weekend. Kevin and Valerie invited us out to their lake cabin for back in July for the 4th(which was a blast) so its not the first we've hung with them, but its taken this long to get together again. Before we meet up with them we've first got to attend the Duluth Heights hockey parent's BBQ...NO KIDS ALLOWED. In addition the highly important business meeting, we'll get to meet some grown ups here too. What a great night of big people conversation...no discipline interruptions necessary!
Believe it or not this will be our first night out in Duluth together.

Tonight when I was tucking in the boys, Riley held me up in his bed with a big hug, asking for me to "stay there all the time". As much as I'd love to enjoy an endless hug I do want to sleep in my own bed, so I explained how if I slept with him, Daddy would me lonesome in our bed. Dylan pointed out that "Riley when Mommy goes to bed, I'm still here... Daddy and Mommy share a room and we share a room." But then Riley recognized that, "But Brady doesn't have anyone in his room...maybe we should have another baby?" Hmmmm... something to ponder?... NOT!!! I offered to put a teddy bear in with Brady to keep him company and they concurred that to be a great idea.

Lets Hit the Ice

2008-10-02T17:12:00.000-07:00

Hockey camp was a slow success... It was a quick go round~ 3 days, 1 hr at a time. When they first hit the ice they were definitely the small guys. As you can see just how small they were, when their buddies game up to check them out. The first day they were very slow movin, as they were a little intimidated by the big kids skating circles around them. But by day 3 they were much more comfortable and getting around pretty good.

Dylan was a Hoot! When he'd skate he'd be in his ready stance, and not stand up until his destination. But the funniest part of it was he was only pushing off with his right leg, so it looked like he was riding an imaginary scooter across the ice. It seems as though he did it this as a way to help control his speed...making sure not to go too fast.
Riley kinda did the scooter thing too, but not with the face off stance.
Dylan's in the red jersey and Riley in white. Their jersey's were so big they had to go Gretzky's style, with one side tucked in their pants. I guess jersey's don't come in XXXSmall.

Hockey practice starts this Saturday, on indoor ice. This year they will be playing Mite 1 hockey for the Duluth Heights Hornets. And those games and practices will be played outdoors... YES OUTDOORS!! How crazy is that?! Make em' or Break em' I guess.

Happy Birthday Nana!!!

2008-10-01T06:30:00.000-07:00

Hey Nana today is your Birthday and we want to wish you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Wish we could be there to share birthday cake with you and give you tons of birthday hugs and kisses, but since we can't we made these special posters just for you, cuz your the Bestest Nana ever!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA~ WE LOVE YOU!
- Love,
Dylan, Brady, & Riley

Big Boy Bathtime

2008-09-20T17:26:00.000-07:00

The little man has graduated from the baby tub to the Big Boy Tub...after a week of Brad and I getting as wet as the child we decided it was time to ditch the baby tub. So I went on a search to find a bath ring, so Brady could sit up in the tub and play around like his brothers. If Brady could talk this is what he'd have to say about the whole experience..."Its was a pretty cool thing to be in the big tub with all the bubbles... oh, and the bath toys!! Now that's what I'm talking about...no more stupid wash cloths and hair brush. Gimme the cups, squirters and boats. Hey, I'm liking this big boy stuff, now keep it coming."

Halfway to Fargo

2008-09-19T19:22:00.000-07:00

I write you today from the van… Yes the van. We are traveling to Fargo for our friends Mike and Kari’s wedding this weekend. And no I didn’t drag along our desk top… We’ve got a new lap top. My dear hubby won this fancy schmancy laptop at a banquet this week, and gifted it to mowah. So I though I’d try it out on our little road trip. Forgot the headphones at home, so there goes the idea of catching a movie. So instead I’ll write a little note (or two).
It’s been almost 5 months since we’ve seen our Fargo friends, so Brad and I are very much looking forward to this trip back. So much has been happening in our lives over the last 5 months it doesn’t seem like its really been that long. But at moments its been an eternity… You really take for granted your Happy Hours, coffee breaks, and pop-in visits when you’ve got friends around. And its not until you don’t have those things any more that you start to feel lonely. Sure your girls are still your “girls” and you can pick up the phone and give a call, but nothing beats seeing your friends laugh and smile. And unfortunately at times, its true… out of sight out of mind. Although you never forget your friends, you just lose touch with them when you move away. We rarely spent time talking on the phone to one another, instead we’d get in the car and drive to see each other. And with a 4 ½ hr drive now separating us its harder to do just that.
Making friends in a new city is hard. Especially when you work full time and have kids. There’s little time for “me time” and it takes time to find people you click with. Sure you get along with your co-workers, but you’re around them 40+ hrs a week (more than your family at times) and so you need a change of scenery. Plus if you wanna bitch about someone at the office, its safer to do so with an outsider. Thankfully my boss and the other gals at the office are super, and make going to work every day easy. That’s the great thing about a new job… you love what you do, and don’t dread it.
So to take full advantage of our weekend back in Fargo we’ve got big plans… Of course Brad will meet up with his hockey buddies at Tailgators and do nothing exciting. Whereas the girls and I have big GREEN plans. Preface: For the past couple years a group of us girls have teamed up and greened up for the big St. Patty’s day run in Jamestown, ND on St. Patricks day. It’s a different kind of marathon that what you’re thinking… Not long distance running… Long distance drinking. The St. Patty’s day run is a “pub crawl” where you start at bar on the south end of town and work your way through town on foot, stopping at and having a drink at every bar on the list (about 12). Of course you’ve got to get into the spirit and dress the part so we get creative shirts made up and go all greened out for the day. We never worry about crossing the finish line, and either do the other 1200 people… the goal is to be standing by the end of the night. And that will be our goal tonight as well. Pictures to follow...

1 kid is a breeze

2008-09-18T20:41:00.000-07:00

This week was a glimpse of what its like to have only one child. Dylan and Riley spent the weekend with my mom and dad, having fun at the lake... While Brad and I kept Brady with us and ejoyed spending QUITE time with him. Having never expereienced what comes with just one child was kind of nice. Fortunately I was blessed to have twins first and a singleton second, so I didn't know any different. Those fellow MOMs that had it the other way around have every right to cry for the first 6 months. One baby is a breeze!
With just one the noise level is certainly different and werid... Car rides are strangely quite and awkward as I talk to the back seat but see no kids in my mirror. Of coarse Brady is around the corner just out of sight, and can hear what I'm rambling. But the sweet little faces smiling back at me are missing.
Dinner was on a whim all week, as we didn't have to stay on a tight schedule, or worry about nutritious offerrings. So lets see, Sunday night was pizza (delivery), Monday Chinese, Wednesday Brad did make a beef stew in the crock pot, accompanied with left overs, and tonight... we'll I'm not really sure what we had for supper? I had some crackers, licorce, and cheerios. And I thought I saw Brad with a bag of chips, and crown royal (Tuff day today). We did make Tuesday into a little date night and ate out at Fitgers. Brady slept the whole time so it was really like we were on a date all alone... Since the weather was nice we took a walk along the lake and stopped for a carmel sundae on the lakewalk. Brady was happy to be outside in the fresh air, and spending that special time with him. He got all our attention!
Around the house there is still certainly evidence that 3 kids live here, but at least for these past few days, when i put something away it stays there for longer than 10 minutes. With just one child its a little easier to stay caught up on laundry too.
In addition you'd think with only one kid to get ready and out the door, you'd never be late for work... we'll I've learned that's not always the case. Even when you subtract 2 kids from the equation, my lateness doesn't improve. It just gives me fewer people to blame it on.
Aside from the clean floors, pee free toilets, and tidy shoe closet...Its the empty beds, and the absent hugs and kisses that make me excited for my big boys to return. A break is always nice and needed... but i'm ready for them to come home. Life just isn't the same with 1 kid.

Brady is 6 months

2008-09-07T19:37:00.000-07:00

Another month has flown by and Brady will soon be 6 months. At this stage in the game he is doing a even more neat things... like sitting up. He's been quite the curious character from birth, and so now to be able to sit up on his own and look around the whole room he can keep better tabs on his big brothers. For some odd reason though, he likes to reach for the toys furthest from him, and therefore tips over forwards. No rug burn yet. He could have a pile at his feet, but he's reaching for the one 2 feet out.

Rolling over has become another fun thing to do too. He can go from back to front and front to back... but exactly when he wants to. Often times you'll hear muffled cries as he's rolled onto his belly and can't figure out how to get back over again... he only likes tummy time so much. He can really get himself all turned around and most times ends up a good couple feet from where he was plopped. The only problem we're having with all this rolling is that Mommy is called into his room at the wee hours of the morning, because Mr Antsy Pants has got himself hung up in the rungs of the crib. He's been found with legs sticking out, or his head right up on the rungs, today at nap time he was pinned on his belly with an arm between the mattress and the rungs and his sucky jabbing his face. I think I might have to tie this kid down!? When we don't have wild nights, he's sleeping straight through from about 7:30pm-5:30am with a little tweaking I'm hoping to see a later wake up time...soon.

With 6 months of age, comes FOOD!! Yes, its time to unleash the taste buds and explore the fanciful world of food. He's been hanging in there with the rice cereal, and so we've introduced every child's favorite...SWEET POTATO! No big face of enthusiasm, or rejection, so it went pretty well. Its hard to tell how much got to his belly...the hands were in the way a lot, and orange is such a fun color to smear everywhere. Say goodbye to the crisp clean clothes...and bring on the ZOUT.

After a busy morning of playing and eating its time for a big fat bottle of milk and nice nap before we do it all over again in the afternoon...

Just a Quickie

2008-09-02T11:30:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to write a quick note to let all my faithful readers know that YES I am still alive. Its been super busy around here balancing work and home life, so the free time that I do get, I am spending with my feet up. I swear I'm always 3 loads of laundry behind... when is the laundry queen gonna visit again ;-) We spent our muggy Labor Day weekend out at the lake with my parents. Great to see the hot sun one last time before snow, but the we could have did without the 35 mph winds. Makes it a little tough to get out on the lake. The boys had a blast playing at the beach with Grandma, and all the water fights against Mom and Dad. Grandma couldn't fill those water balloons fast enough! Brady was a super good boy, and enjoyed many long naps in the jogger under the big shady tree. I hope he can nap that good in a crib now?!
I have a list of reminders to go back and write about, which I hope to do later today or tomorrow, so the next time you visit be sure to look back a few weeks to see the new entries. So long for now...

Houseless in Duluth...

2008-08-29T20:24:00.000-07:00

Unfortunately we're back to square one... We had all our ducks in a row and did our research ahead of time, but along the way it seemed the builder was getting more and more difficult to work with. Like you'd think they would be aiming to please~ but once we put in our offer, they really made it clear they weren't gonna be easy to work worth, and they had no interest in negotiations. This were all hunkie Dorrie at first~ of course. But after we made the offer things just became more evident...it slipped out that oh, wait we don't have the building permit yet (they told us they did and a mid Oct finish date was the goal), this step alone could take months!! So what initially sounded like a go ahead, turned into a WHOA, we don't trust the disorganization and don't really want to work with this builder, cuz we really don't want to get screwed mid way through this deal. So we got out and now we're moving on. This kinda thing is exactly why I never wanted to consider building in the first place!!
Quite disheartening yes, as I was really excited to have a home mapped out in my mind, and a place that we could call home. I hate house hunting in Duluth... its all crap! YES CRAP!! There's no happy medium, or even so so's that could be upgraded into a decent residence. I'm grumpy and crabby and so tired of wasting Sunday's dragging the kids around to open houses. What made it even worse was seeing homes in the Fargo Forum last weekend at my parents that were easily in our price range and absolutely gorgeous... Homes are expensive here, and you don't get much yard for your buck either...too many damn trees. I'm throwin' in the towel and hibernating for the winter...maybe I'll be up for house hunting in the spring.

What is it like to be 4?

2008-08-25T19:17:00.000-07:00

Just a few weeks after turning 4 yrs old, Dylan and Riley give narrative to what its like being 4...
- "I'm 4 Mommy, I don't need any help...I know the rules." Quoted Riley as he was buttoning his own shirt~ successfully.
- "Now look what you did... We're gonna go to school smelling like girls." Said Dylan to Riley after they dumped Mommy's whole bottle of Victoria's Secret LOVE SPELL body wash into the tub. Thinking they'd wash themselves.
- "You'll see" has become a sassy response from the wrongly confident 4 yr olds when dancing with authority.
- After questioning the birthing process (again) but this time wanting more detail... Riley was able to summarize that it happens either by "the doctor cuts the baby out with a knife." or "it comes from Mommy's privates, but not her butt."
- "Missed me, missed me, now you gotta kiss me." Dylan picked this up at school and was surprised when I chased him down and smoothered him with kisses.
- They gave each other Nicknames... Dylan has become "Dill" and Riley has become "Rye" ~ I guess no more Tubs and Toots. (we used to call them that when they were babies. Dylan was always just ounces bigger than Riley so he got Tubs and Riley, well had the toots.)

Hockey Boys

2008-08-23T19:07:00.000-07:00

Aside from the little stuff like the pirate swords, Ninja Turtles, Batman, etc... Dylan and Riley got head to toe hockey gear from us for their birthday. I knew it would make a nice dent in the wallet, but my problem with this is that we'll be lucky if we can get 2 seasons outta the gear. Had we one child, it would only be half as bad, and the gear could be passed down the line. But forking it out for 2 at once!!! Boy this is gonna be fun for the next 15 years. Poor Brady's never gonna see new gear... instead he'll be stuck with 2 sets of used smelly gear.
Aside from the financial gripes of what being a Hockey Mom does to ya, it was really neat to see these guys all geared up.
They start hockey camp in September and need full gear, so we're ready to roll...
RILEY's Game Face
Dylan's ready to hit the ice

Dylan & Riley Turn 4

2008-08-18T18:44:00.000-07:00

The big boys are officially 4 years old (Aug 17th). We had a Batman/Pirate Birthday party with Nana, Papa, cousin Sydney, Greg, Kelly, and MacKenzie. Dylan chose the pirate portion and Riley wanted Batman... so we had a little of both and made it all work. Oh yeah and the cake was Spiderman... we had all our bases covered. Now that they're older its a little harder for Mommy to take over and rule the game, plus Mommy has learned to relax and let them enjoy discombobulation sometimes.

A few weeks later we got to do it all over again, this time with Grandma, Papa Rudi, Uncle Bryan, Auntie Cole, Gma Marlene, and Gpa Rog out at my parents camper. This time we just stuck to a superhero theme with Batman paperware and a Spiderman pinata. As you can see we all fell victim to the old favorite of "pin the tail on the donkey" except this was a case of "Badge Batman's Belt". Brady even got into the action. This boys are pretty lucky each year... having family so far apart they usually get 2-3 birthday celebrations. Its just werid to think that they are 4... such big boys, doing big boy things.

Canadian Invasion

2008-08-16T20:06:00.000-07:00

This past week/weekend we had some Canadian visitors to Duluth... Good friends of ours, Greg, Kelly with baby MacKenzie came for a visit and to do some touring of Duluth. So Brad and I took Thursday off, to spend with the Epp's out at Gooseberry Falls. The falls were much lower than during our first visit this spring, so it was kinda neat to see all the rock down below, and then to be able to walk further out into the river. Kelly and I attempted to take the boys out next to the falls, but with their short legs our rock hopping left us stranded half way there. Of course the babes slept through it all...maybe one of these times Brady will be awake to see its beauty?
Before heading back to town we stopped for lunch, and pie ;-) Unfortunately they were out of the Raspberry Cream Pie :-( this time so I shared a HUGE plate of Caramel Apple Pecan pie (MMmmmm) with Brad and the boys... seriously this thing covered a dinner plate with pie and ice cream we couldn't eat it all. But while we were enjoying our pie, Greg fell victim to a Hit and Run in the parking lot... He was changing MacKenzie's bumm in the backseat when all of a sudden felt the vehicle rock back and forth. Here it was a bus full of senior citizens from a retirement center that backed into him... they hadn't a clue they hit his vehicle ~ so with a half dressed child in hand he's waving and yelling at them but they just drove off. Meanwhile we're inside wondering what's taking so long. Yes a bit funny, but at the same time not so much. I guess now every time they look at their bumper they'll be sure to remember us and their visit to Duluth?
Early Friday morning then came the second car load of Canadians... the parents and our niece Sydney. Not having a guest room for them, they were left to the couch and an air mattress on the living room floor. (Another reason I can't wait to have a house) I was worried about Brady disturbing them during his night time and/or early morning wakings but an extra set of hands comes in handy when you're holding a screaming kid and trying to warm a bottle.

Saturday we took the foreigners out to our new hot spot at Pike Lake for some fun in the sun. With a cooler of beer, and a smaller one of food, we were armed for a day at the beach.

Brady was loving the fresh air and the change of scenery, so he was awake for most of our stay...
However, after a bite to eat it was time for a siesta under the shady umbrella with little MacKenzie.
Dylan and Sydney are swimming up on me like a couple of sharks.

Future Home???

2008-08-14T19:48:00.000-07:00

We were out to Esko, MN to walk through a model (again) of the home we hope to purchase. This time we paid much closer detail to the fine touches and asked all those important yet piddly questions... how may can lights are included? Can we choose where the outlets and switches go? Is the window griding an upgrade? And many more. After walking through it again we're positive this is the way to go. Now its just a matter of getting all the nice finishing we want, but staying in our price range. So we'll be putting in an offer Friday morning and hope to hear something back early next week. Below are a couple pictures of the homes we saw. The full view image is the exact layout and look of the home we'll be building. The only difference will be the outside finishing touches... which is where the second picture comes into play... We both like the rock vs. brick, and the wood shakes at the peak, along with the "Prairie view" windows in pic #2, vs the old fashioned farm house look in #1. The color is yet to be determined... We want to be careful not to match exact, nor clash with our neighbors. But for now we wait...

Brady is 5 Months old today

2008-08-13T20:37:00.000-07:00

Brady is 5 Months old today. He's becoming a breath of fresh air for mommy too. At first I thought this child was going to be a breeze and just sail through the infant stages. But he fooled me! Just after we got unpacked and settled in, he started to up his demands. I've described him to be much like his father... Either in a really good mood or really pissed off. At least he was a gem during the move and those first weeks in our new home. But he certainly made up for lost time, and turned up the demands... at the time when he should be "growing out of things" he was just getting into the groove of more mommy time. Nightwakings, feeding demands and only Mommy's touch were on his mind... As I prepared for a new job, I put down my foot and started Mommy's boot camp with sanity as my goal. I partially blame the inconsistent routine we had around here, but at the same time I'm noticing its his personality (its the stubborn Onofreychuk in him). Thankfully with time and patience he's responded well to my boot camp and is now focusing more on being fun and cute, rather than needy and screaming.

Over the past month he's started a few new tricks...
* Blowing raspberries... you know that motorboat sound you make with your lips vibrating and dribbling spit everywhere. He's still a bit bashful with his new trick but will copy you if you're persistent.
* Rolling around... not quite rolling over though. He can't figure out how to get that dang arm outta the way to make it all the way over. But he did one day, because I was in the kitchen and heard a muffled like sound, so peaked up to see what it was, and here he was on his belly eating the playmat.
* Grabbing everything... grabs your plate when your eating, grabs the mail when your reading, grabs your hair, your arm, your chest hair (Brad not me) and loves to hook his big brothers by the lip. I tell them that's what you get for getting in his face.
* Everything to mouth... Once he's got a hold of something its slobbed up in no time. His favorite toy is a teething toy~ its a blue pretzel that he hang grab with no problem. He's got a death grip on this thing and will knaw at it while sliding the spit from ear to ear. How cute! Although all this drool and oral fixation has me worried that teeth might be on the way sooner than later.

No doctors visit this month, but I'm sure he's topping the charts at 17 lbs... Still loving the rice cereal and looking forward to the furits and veggies next month.

Dog days of summer

2008-08-11T19:41:00.000-07:00

To make the most of our summer we are sure to make time for riding bikes, hanging out in the yard (what little bit we have), playing at the park and grilling out for dinner. The boys love to sit out back when Brad's grilling, so since Daddy's got his beer, I've gotta get them their root beer, and they have their little man time out back. Brady's part of this too, minus any of the drinks... he's still into milk these days.

Since starting my new job, life has been very busy. There just aren't enough hours at home in the evening to get squeeze in all the things you want to do. The tight ship I ran around here the past few months, has slipped a bit into a free for all. "Whats for supper?" is a common question these days... the menu no longer consists of Bruschetta stuffed Chicken with Petite Green Beans and Greek Salad. Rather Mac N' Cheese with Hot Dogs please. I don't really have the interest of preparing 4 course meals when I get home, and the family starts pulling on my pant legs within minutes of walking in the door... "I'm hungry Mommy...when are we gonna eat?... I want a snack, cuz I'm too hungry to wait." So I throw them a few bones (literally Scooby Snacks graham crackers shapped like dog biscuits) and they leave me alone, then Brad walks in the door and I sickem on him ;-)
Brad and I aren't the only ones working lik dogs each day... the boys have been coming home absolutely wipped out. In the short 5 minutes from daycare to home, its not uncommon for all 3 of them to doze off. Brady's no surprise... his carseat is the sleep machine. And Dylan and Riley are "too big for naps" at school so they play and play like animals all day long, so one could see how they are worn out. One day last week, Brad had picked them up from school and on the way home asked the usual how was your day, what was for lunch, who did you play with, etc, etc. Dylan was on firing back the answers with little breath in between... so excited to talk about his day with Daddy. But wanting to hear what Riley had to say, Brad singled him out and asked "Riley you're being quite, what did you do today?" and Dylan answered "Daddy, Riley can't tell you he's too busy sleeping" Most days their heads bob around and drool is running down the seat belt as we pull up to the house. Unfortunately those short cat naps, can lead to some nasty 'tudes when they get up. After all the cooking and cleaning its play time before more food prep (snacks, bottles) and cleaning (baths, laundry)... my goal is for all to crawl into bed with full tummies and clean toes.

Dylan and Riley are also gearing up for Hockey camp next month... The summer has put a little rust on their skills, so we're starting to take them to open skating to sharpen things up a bit before you put a stick and puck into the mix. Finally that gear Auntie Kim bought them for Christmas 2 years ago will fit!! They've been wearing their pads and helmets around the house this week...and it just so happenned that during one of their full gear parades around the house. a neighborh boy came to the door looking for them to play. When he say the 2 dressed in head to toe gear he was a little stunned and unsure. Dylan proceeded to though some Kung Fu moves at him, and with stick in hand Riley whacked his brother in the shins announcing, "Look it doesn't hurt!" I wonder what he went home and told his mom?

Lovin' the Lake

2008-08-10T19:16:00.000-07:00

Its safe to say that you can step out our front door, turn any direction and within 10 minutes you'd be at a beach. Lake Superior is by far the grandest beach around, but much too cold for swimming, so we've set out and tested a few... Pike Lake is now our new splashing ground. Its a quick drive from home, and just minutes from a gas station if you run out of snacks. Its a great spot for the kids, because its super shallow a good 40 feet out, and its more of a huge grassy park with a smaller sandy beach, so not everyone has to come home with sand in their shorts. Like every beach adventure, the first thing the kids want to do is have their snack. So what ya know... we had a picnic.
Each visit to the shores of Duluth, makes Brad a bit more antsy for fishing, and the lake life overall. Although there are plenty of lakes close to town, its still a bit far for my liking to consider living out there. Lakeshore property is more spendy so you get less house for your money, and then to think of the horrible winter roads to and from work every day... No thanks. Not to mention all the back and forth into town we'd be doing in the future for hockey, soccer, t-ball, etc. As tempting as the Lake life is, it'll have to stay on hold until the kids are old enough to drive themselves to their activities and pay for their own gas.

Sniffles, Sneezes and Snots

2008-07-31T13:38:00.000-07:00

One can expect that exposing your children to an environment of germs (daycare) will lead to days of misery...however I wasn't expecting them so soon. Just after one week of daycare, all three boys and myself managed to catch a cold. First of all, how goofy to get a cold in the summer... its much harder to lay around when the weather is gorgous and your social calender is packed full of things to do. Second, Dylan and Riley should be immune to almost every bug out there after 3 yrs of daycare center germs. And third, I NEVER GET SICK!! Everyone in my house could have TB and I would never get it. And this time around I've got it worse than the kids! Dylan's got a runny nose, then Riley and Brady both have the runny nose plus a cough. Thankfully none of them are really uncomfortable or really seem disruppted by this bug. Me on the other hand... I've used almost a whole 100 count box of Kleenex in the last 2 days. I'm certainly not impressing my officemates during my second week on the job. They've had to hear my blowing, sneezing and congested cough all week...How gross! My garbage can is pure Kleenex. Between the Halls cough drops and hand sanitizer, my desk smells like quite medicinal.
Being the new girl, I didn't really want to call in sick, but certainly should have for how crappy I've been feeling. But today's a little better, and I think its on the way out... at least it better be. My poor chapped nose can't tolerate any more blowing (and either can my co-workers).
Hope you're all feeling better than me.

City Girl

2008-07-25T10:38:00.000-07:00

So after a full work week I'm feeling all sassy... Not so much because of my job, but more of the surroundings. Downtown Duluth, is a real "Downtown"... Its got buses running like crazy (people actually use public transportation here, unlike Fargo), cultural Mom and Pop eateries, tons of business people running around, busy traffic, underground tunnels, a vast skywalk, parking meters, points of interest and architecture. The great thing about working here is I get to venture out into this world for a fun lunch or just for a stretch break around the block. Having been confined to the towering walls of a Health care System for the past 6 yrs its quite different and neat to be part of the downtown vibe. And with the nice skywalk system right from our building, I won't have the cold winters slowing me down either.
The only thing I'm finding scary about working downtown is the traffic... My gosh you'd think there was a disaster coming the way everyone races out of here to get home each day. I'm afraid to cross the street to the parking lot most days, and would never consider J-walking with the way some idiots drive around here. Add the steep hills and blind intersections to this equation and that only makes it worse. Sure I'm guilty of picking up speed coming down the hill to work in the mornings, but that's mother nature pushing you along. Going up isn't so effortless, and who's in a hurry to get home?... Certainly not any adult with children. Must be newlyweds, that just die being away from their spouse all day? Whoever it is slow the hell down!!
So its Friday and we've got a sunny weekend ahead of us... We've been invited out to a Lake party tomorrow, and will be making it a family affair. "Rappalooza" is the event ~ Its actually our Realtor Kevin Rappana's famiy that is hosting it out at their lake cabin. Its the 10th Anniversary of Rappalooza... full of beer, food, fun and did I mention beer? Looking forward to meeting some new friends.

To Build or Not to Build... That is the question

2008-07-24T12:06:00.000-07:00

After scouring the housing market for the last 2 months, we've become extremely frustrated in our findings. We've been pre-approved for a very generous amount, but are held to the confinements of childcare expenses... Leaving us with a strict budget. The ideal scenario would be a 4 bedroom 2+ Bath with at least 2000 sq ft, a nice big Back yard, 2+ stall garage, updated kitchen and finished basement/family room... in the East end of town. Doesn't sound so unrealistic right? Well apparently Duluth has this thing about setting your home so far back on your property that you have a bigger front yard than back, or maybe no back yard at all. And as for the rest of the house, curb appeal doesn't mean much to people around here, so although the inside is decent, you'd have to spend thousands on siding and landscape to make it look nice, inside and out. And then we've found newer homes (built less than 10 yrs ago) that have extremely outdated materials and fixtures inside??? Whatever the case is, with each home we've looked at we've easily come up with an immediate list of things that would need to be changed to call it home.
So we came across this house plan on the MLS listing and inquired what it meant... What we found was a builder who has already purchased a lot in a new development, in the perfect neighborhood, and these were the house plans for that lot. After we reviewed the blueprints and talked more about costs and closings its sounds very very doable. Not to mention we could be moved in by mid-October :-)
Its a 4 bedroom, 2.5 bath, Open floor plan, Split level with 3 stall garage, 2200 sq ft, nice yard, and its on a culdesac.
Although the house plan can't be changed at this point, we have deciding power on everything else about it. From shingles, siding and landscape to carpet, hardwood, faucets, fixtures, fireplaces and wall colors its up to us. Nice!! Of course with each upgrade comes additional cost, but this builder starts with stainless appliances, ceramic tile and hardwood flooring, so there would be very little if anything that we'd upgrade. As you can imagine this has me super excited... who wouldn't want to move into a nice new house, already looking the way you want it to.
Brad is doing some more checking into the development and the final costs of everything so we are sure to stay in a comfort zone before we sign on the dotted line. As for me, well I've already mentally moved in and started my search for color schemes :-) More to come!

Back to School

2008-07-22T19:47:00.000-07:00

Along with yesterday being my first day at work it was also the First day of school/daycare for the kids. Of course Dylan and Riley loved it, and talked my ear off the whole way home. But as we were getting in the van Riley asked "Mommy how was your first day at work?" Sweet thing... Not only was he being thoughtful, he was interested, because he asked me "did you eat lunch with your new friends too?"

They couldn't remember their teachers names, but found the bathroom when needed, and even took a nap. When I tucked them in last night, Dylan told me I forgot to send their blankets for nap time... ??? I told the teachers they didn't have to take naps unless they need/want one??? Being a month shy of 4 they haven't been napping much any more... just the occasional day here and there when the 'tude is hot. But when the teachers asked them if they napped at home, they said yes, so off they went with the nappers... the teacher said the fell asleep right away (never happens like that at home). Well, Dylan was kinda upset, because he didn't have his own blanket, so they gave him one to use and it was a "girl blanket". "Mommy they gave me a pink blanket...I'm not a girl you know." So I was sure to send the hockey blankets today.

Brady, Brady, Brady.... Mr. Brady hasn't been the best little sleeper lately... He's been waking Mommy and Daddy more than usual and putting up a huge fuss with going back to bed. It was so bad Sunday night (yes the night before my first day on the job) that Brad popped him in the car seat/stroller and took him out in the cold for a walk at 3am. I think I got maybe 3 hours of sleep that night. Anyway, after that big production I was nervous about what his first day at daycare would be like. Brady's got 2 sides to him... He's either Really Happy and SUPER smiley, or screaming Pissed Off until you make him happy again. I think daycare candy coated it a bit for my benefit, but they said he did very well. Took his bottle with no problems, napped fairly well and was smiley smiley.
This time around I definitely didn't feel has terrible of a parent leaving my baby at daycare... The second time around, you've got the sense to keep your mind from playing out all those terrible scenarios, and trust a bit easier that your baby is in good hands. Everyone is welcome back and excited to go back tomorrow.

"Workn' 9 to 5"

2008-07-21T19:22:00.000-07:00

...Ok its actually 8:00-4:30. Today was my first day at work as the 211 Program Coordinator for United Way of Greater Duluth. As expected it was an overload of information, and a lot of handshaking as I met everyone in the office. I was a bit concerned about remember everyone's name, and what they do, but to my fortune their title is listed on their name plate outside their office/cubicle... and its not a big of an office, so I just start walking in a circle until I find who I'm looking for. My boss is super neat, and very approachable, and far from stuffy. She's got a great sense of humor and a contagious laugh that echo's throughout the office.
As the 211 program director I will supervise 2 full time staff, interns and volunteers in our call center. The unfortunate thing is that those other staff are relatively new to the program as well... with only 6 months and 3 months under their belt. So when the 2 gals training me in leave in August, it'll be my ship left to sail on my own... Just a bit of pressure on that one.
At first it was just normal first day on the job stuff, but then as the day progressed and I was around the call center staff I could sense some awkwardness... I was their boss, and they were treated me that way... You know with extra respect. It felt nice, but weird. But it didn't take long for me to ease into things and set a more comfortable vibe... All it really takes are some good parenting stories, and your a much more relate able boss.
211 is a Information and Resource call center that keeps a database of local, state, and national resources. The database has a special coding system and takes months to years to master. I have 6 weeks to learn the system, so that I can effectively oversee my Data Manager and be of support to her when things need attention or go wrong. This is the one area that's got me freaked a bit... But as part of the United Way system, we've got access to experts across the state to help us through any challenges.
The bigger, most interesting part of my job will focus on promoting and building relations with service providers in the community, and reaching the general public for better awareness of 211's existence. I've already got presentations, meetings and events scheduled into October that I'll be part of... But here again, I've gotta learn the insides out, because I'm the presenter! I love public speaking like this, so its a great motivator to learn it all (gotta now what I'm talking about), and I'm REALLY looking forward to all this community networking.
The day went by super fast and I hadn't even signed my W4... The paperwork is already stacking up and my To Do list is 2 pages long... Oh, its great to be back to work!!

Lions, Tigers, and Bears Oh My...

2008-07-15T12:41:00.000-07:00

Being our last week together before I get back into the work force, I want to get all those fun things in that I've been meaning to do for the last couple months. So this week started out with a trip to the Lake Superior Zoo...
(Dylan's in the Blue shirt and Riley's in the Orange)

The 3 boys and I had a picnic lunch in the van after swimming (yes Brady too) before heading to the zoo. On a full stomach and a sunny day we set out first to the barnyard for some a hands on experience. Dylan and Riley were able to go into the gate with the animals and wonder around with goats, a Llama, a donkey and geese. They weren't exactly comfortable with the animals being able to brush right up against them, so it was a quick visit on that side of the gate. I don't blame them though... If I were in the shadow of a Llama who towered over me I'd be nervous too... Heck I'm as tall as the thing and I was still intimidated. Too cool off a little we visited the Nocturnal house with bats, and other weird creatures. Riley, my little "Batman", thought for sure those big ugly looking bats were from the "Bat Cave" but didn't like how dark the place was. Next was a long jaunt back to the back of the Zoo where the Northwest Territory animals reside...the kids gripped the whole walk there, and then the darn animals were hiding in the shade so we couldn't even see them anyway. But just around the corner was the highlight of our trip... The Polar Bear. We got there just as he was having a very playful swim with his red ball. For a good 10 minutes he splashed, rolled and swam around before retreating to his nap too. He was just like a baby playing with that ball. We stopped by a few different times afterward in hopes of catching him at play again, but he was taking a snooze.
They had a little learning center with various small species of animals, that they would bring out of their cages and let the children explore more with them... asking questions, touching and posing for pictures. It just so happened we got in on the Millipede demonstration... although they are gross looking, at least it wasn't one of the rodents they have on exhibit...Bleck. Both Dylan and Riley braved the experience and touch the wormy little thing, after Mommy did first of course (quick where's the Purell). They lady was telling us about this little critter, and mentioned that Millipede's don't have eyes... So Dylan asked "why?" Which he reasonable answered "because they eat stuff on the ground?" The lady went on to describe that they are recyclers, eating waste on the ground and in turn making fertilizer for the soil. In which Dylan translated into "Yuck, he eats his POOP!" Guess he made the full circle connection on that one ;-)
As the afternoon progressed the big boys complained of walking, the heat and dying of thirst... it was getting hot, and all the furry animals were resting in the shade anyway. So we called it quits after almost 3 hrs. However Dylan and Riley couldn't leave the zoo without a train ride around the park, so off they went, and sleeping Brady and I waited in the shade. Brady's first trip to the zoo may not be very memorable, as he was asleep the whole time, but a good solid nap is a good thing for him these days, so it was a great day for us all.

Yummies...

2008-07-11T20:58:00.000-07:00

Mr. Brady was quite the Big Boy today... This morning he successfully took a bottle from Mommy, without any problems!! The last 2 times I've left him with his grandma's and a bottle of breast milk, he didn't really cooperate...and screamed bloody murder instead. So with the start of daycare less than 2 weeks away, I figured we better get on this little problem he's got with the plastic nipple. Knowing of these last 2 experiences I was prepared for a battle, but it was nothing of the sort. I coaxed him along a little as I cleverly positioned my pinkie at his lips for the texture and scent of Mommy, just to ease into things a little... Mommy's always know the right tricks ;-) Thankfully it wasn't just a coincidence, as he took another bottle without problems before bed tonight. Tomorrow Daddy will try, and we'll see if he's got the right touch... Its not gonna do much good if he'll only take a bottle from me.

But the biggest accomplishment today was his attempt with the Big Boy cereal...

The first introduction to cereal isn't recommended until 4-6 months (despite what your grandmothers say), so since he'll be 4 months in just 2 days, and likes to eat, we thought we'd try it out of curiosity. He LOVED it!! The first mix of cereal is really runny (1 Tbsp cereal to 4 Tbsp Breast milk) but he did very well moving it around with his tongue and opening up when the spoon came at him. Its a bit tricky getting a spoonful of runny cereal past those swinging arms... not to mention the near disaster when he got a hold of the bowl. Daddy did the honors with the first bowl of cereal, while Dylan and Riley giggled and cheered Brady on, and mommy played photographer... It was our Friday night family entertainment.
Little bowl of cereal + tiny spoon + curious little man = Such a sloppy face...

Papa's Little Helpers

2008-07-10T18:41:00.000-07:00

Dylan and Riley have already started saving for their hockey careers, little by little ;-) ...
Over the 4th of July weekend when we were at my parents they decided that Papa's driveway needed to be swept, and it went on from their. The concrete slab was swept, washed, swept again, washed again by Papa Rudi's little helpers. A couple brooms and a garden hose provided hours of entertainment, and a great sense of pride in those two little fellows. But like with everything, it soon got old and they upgraded to the car wash... Papa's truck needed to be washed, so they redirected their brooms and garden hose to get R done. Thank goodness Papa's truck isn't a sweet ride, because they were using he push brooms to do the scrubbing.

Of course their efforts didn't go unnoticed... Papa paid them "some dollars" for their service. The cutest was the next day at breakfast when they asked to go outside and play... Dylan was reciting what he planned to do outside, "dig some more dirt for Grandma, play trucks in the dirt, and I suppose sweep the driveway a little for papa." However had a different perspective, "Dylan, I can't do it all the day, just some of the time." Now if only I could get them as excited about cleaning up around the house?... I've tried the bribery and that doesn't work! Maybe I should just let them have at it with the garden hose?

T minus 11

2008-07-09T18:50:00.000-07:00

So the countdown is running... Only 11 days left until I go back to work. As you can imagine I have tons of mixed feelings. I'm sad to leave Brady at daycare, yet looking forward to some time away from his demands. I wonder how he will do without me there... will he cry all day, will he take the bottle ok, will they hold him, talk to him and play with him? All these questions will swim around in my head those first days. And that too worries me, as I'll be at my first days in my new job... I need to have a clear and attentive mind. Gosh, I'm so nervous about that too. Its been 6 years since my first day on the job... I haven't not known what to do at my job for 6 years!! And to top it off, I don't even know much about the services and community that I'll be marketing. Talk about overwhelming.
Dylan and Riley will do just fine at their new school. They'll have each other, to help with the transition, and they are just dying to be around other kids, and do those fun "school things." The only worry I have with the 2 of them, is that they won't want to come home at the end of the day.

When I look past all these worries, I do see some joy... Joy to be out of the house, joy to meet new people, joyful of the few extra dollars coming in, and the joy of success. I'm really excited to have a new job, that has so little to do with social work and direct care. I will be in more of a managerial role, and rarely in the trenches. What a nice change!! I can't wait to feel like a "business woman" again... my stent as a stay at home mom was short and sweet. I'm tired of being bored at home... Although I'm going, going, going, with the 3 of them around here, its boring kind of stuff (laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc.) I like to be out and about, and I'm running out of "doable" things to do with them. I've said it before and I'll say it again... I'm a better mom because I work outside of the house. I have more patience and overall appreciation for my children when I miss them all day and then greeted by their shining faces when I come to pick them up. Plus because our time can be so limited in the evenings, they get my undivided attention leaving everyone happy at the end of the day.

So which way will it go... Fears and Tears or Handshakes and Smiles? My guess is all of the above, but more smiles than fears.

Swimming Lessons

2008-07-08T13:12:00.000-07:00

Dylan and Riley have started swimming lessons this week... they are the guys in the matching shorts. They are in Level 1, which means they are old enough now, that they don't need a parent to swim with them... Yippee!! (I've been holding out on swimming lessons for this reason) As I looked around at the other kids in level one I was a little nervous...Dylan and Riley were by far the youngest and smallest in their group. I heard the other kids belt out their age... most being 5 & 6. So I was a bit worried they were too young for the class, but the teachers didn't flinch and they boys pulled their weight just fine. I thought I had waited too long to get them in to swimming.
So the first day was spent getting them comfortable with the water and being in there without a security device (parent or floaties). They put a neat platform in the pool so the kids heads are above water without having to hold onto the wall the whole time. So right there they felt more confident.
On the way home they were so excited about swimming lessons, and talked about how they would "dunk all the way under tomorrow". So tomorrow (Tuesday) rolled around and they followed through with their plan perfectly. There was a little spitting and sputtering after the first couple times, but then it was old hat from there. The dunk their face under in the tub, but I guess the pool is a bit more intimidating?

(Holy crap... I almost lost this whole post... Brady managed to hit Ctrl A - and then a few random keys, to delete everything. Thank goodness for autosave! He likes to watch my fingers dance around, so I let him sit on my lap and try catch them- cheap entertainment.)

Anyway... I'm so glad that they love swimming lessons. Next to the Erskine Water Carnival it seems to be the highlight of their summer.

Brady's Baptism

2008-07-08T08:42:00.000-07:00

I finally got a picture of Brady's Baptism... I got it off my sister-inlaw Jodi's facebook. I have to admit we look pretty good, all dressed up.

10 yr Reunion

2008-07-07T13:30:00.000-07:00

I think this was the first year ever that rain hadn't interrupted the 4th of July weekend. It was perfect weather to be out and hang at the beach, so we did just that. Picnics, BBQ's and fireworks is what its all about. However I was somewhat disappointed being a MN resident... state law only allows the sale and use of ground fireworks. So we had our own lame display of entertainment prior to the big show put on my the city. Next year I'll be sure to make a trip over the boarder to smuggle in a decent display.
This past weekend was not only a lovely 4th of July event but it was also my 10 year High School Reunion/All school reunion. Having graduated from a class of only 46 people, it wasn't a big to do, but still loads of fun. We gathered at the local watering hole Thursday night to plan out the weekends events, which included conspiring and constructing a float for the parades on Saturday. Apparently the purpose of these parades is to see who can soak the other floats the most. Its safe to say the class of '98 won this award... with a big thanks to the men in our class, we literally drenched all the surrounding floats and then some. They had four 50 gallon drums full of water, using 5 gallon pails and ice cream buckets to get the job done. As you can imagine there was retaliation, so we got wet as well, but not near as wet as others. Sounds a bit foolish, I know... but it was fun. It reminded me of the waterballon fights we used to have as kids and in high school... Not much else to do in a town of 400. It was scorching hot, so one didn't really mind getting wet, unless it was a water grenade coming at you 50 mph... A girl on our float was nailed by just that, and instantly bruised. I was somewhat lucky as I escaped the bruising, but took a few bucketfuls as well.

Aside from the foolishness, I caught up with some old friends and had a few good laughs about the "good ol days." It was somewhat weird to see the "boys" in our class all grown up and with wives/kids. For some reason my mind had never pictured them as men, and husbands. I still had the picture of these baby faced lads, who need to shave only once a month (Adam) ;-) During these last tens years we've gone our separate ways, and made different friends, but at some point we all come back to these childhood friendships and relive our younger years.

Happy Canada Day!!

2008-07-01T20:04:00.000-07:00

Though we do not reside in its boundaries, we do celebrate Canada Day at our house... This morning I attempted to sing the Canadian national anthem to the boys at breakfast (I stumble over a few lines in the middle) and then we packed a lunch and headed to the beach after Brad got home from work. No fireworks though... :-( But we'll do a 2 for 1 this weekend when we celebrate the 4th of July back home.

Today was our second day in a row at the beach, as yesterday we squeezed in a trip with Brad's family. It was super hot yesterday, and the water was still super cold, so no swimming but the kids had a blast in the sand and the rest of us worked on our tan.

2008-06-30T19:31:00.000-07:00

What a busy weekend... Both our families came for a visit this past weekend for Brady's baptism. It was the first time for them to Duluth, so we took tours of the rink, ate at Sammy's and spent the day down at Canal Park to give them a good Duluthian experience. We boarded the Vista King for a Lake Superior cruise on Saturday...it was a really neat narrarated tour, that went through the Harbor and a bit up Lake Superior. I feel a little more educated now on the whole Maritime part of Duluth. Saturday was also the busiest day of the year for ships in the canal, so we saw some really huge ships up close throughout the day. The weather was perfect (hot) and the kids did a great job on the go. I think it was all the "special treats" (sugar) that kept them satisfied and going. Those little legs put on quite a few miles that day.

Canal Park has a really neat foutain with a path through it that you can walk on, and then these steel sturgeons along the edge that shoot water into the fountian pool. If you got your hand in its path just right you could soak someone walking on the path... so I tried it out and soaked my niece Sydney (She loved it). But if you didn't get it right you'd end up soaking yourself... Here's Dylan having a try at it.

We wrapped the weekend with little Brady's baptism on Sunday... he did great. All smiles and quite the Chum when the pastor bathed his head and showed him off to the congregation. His Aunties (Jodi & Nicole) and Uncles (Mike & Bryan) where chosen as Godparents. And he wore one of Dylan and Riley's baptismal outfits, with my brother Bryan's white baby bootie socks. He looked so cute, yet we didn't get a picture of him with our camera. Everyone else has pictures though, so I'll have to get some from our parents to post. yeah, Not one picture of his baptism is on our camera!! On the way home from church Dylan and Riley where talking about how the pastor poured water on Brady's head, and that "he didn't cry at all... so maybe he can do it again the next time we go?"

Ding Ding Ding... And the Winner is ME!

2008-06-28T07:21:00.001-07:00

I GOT THE JOB!!!! I got a call Thursday afternoon from the United Way president offering me the 211 Coordinator position, and then she emailed me the benefit/salary info. I alomst died when I saw the salary...because it was so terrible!! But thankfully I was able to come up with some creative strategies to propose to her, which would allow them to hike it up to a more desireable range. So in the end it worked out... and because I'm gonna love the job, the mediocre salary isn't a big deal. I just had to make sure that in the end I would be bringing home some bacon, after daycare expenses. So YIPPEE for me... I got a job.

It just so happened that same morning when I got all 3 boys enrolled in the same daycare center. We had our name on the list for the new center that opens Sept 1. but they were able to finagle a few things to get them in their current location (that is otherwise full) for the 5-6 weeks before Sept 1. It was all just falling into place!

Then to top off my day, my wonderful hubby sent me a beautiful boquet of flowers, with congrats on the new job... Ahhh!

Round 2

2008-06-24T20:08:00.000-07:00

Well today was the big interview at United Way... Got off to a slow start, but then really nailed it. I really let my personality show through so I'm putting all my eggs in that basket... only to find that, that's what they were really looking for. A confident, motivative and innovative person. The only hang up on this job, is the salary... Sound like it may not be worth it, after I subtract daycare expenses :-( If offered the position, there may have to be some negotiations. I'm so torn... This sounds like a dream job.

Because I was on top of my wardrobe this time around, I don't have any real comical events from this morning. A few charming ones though... Dylan and Riley asked why I was all dressed up and where I was going. When I told them for an interview to get a job, they just knodded and went back to watching cartoons. But later in the day over lunch Riley said "you don't get a job Mommy, just stay here with us." And then Dylan chimed in, "Yeah I'll build a garage house thing here and you can work here." How sweet... I think they're gonna miss me! As I will them.

Yeah sure we get on each others nerves throughout the day... But this has been my chance to catch up with those 2 and really spend some quality time with the. Sure its a juggle with the daily demands of an infant, but we squeeze our together time in each day. Because the past couple months life have been so busy and at times chaotic, Dylan and Riley have been forced to become more independent. From the simple things like getting their own water bottles from the fridge, and getting dressed on their own, to the more difficult challenges like resolving conflict with each other, and learning to make new friends. They've matured greatly with this whole experience, and now its time to slow down and have some fun with Mom at home. Often times I catch myself in anticipation of the next milestone or great accomplishment with all 3 of them, that I forget about the present. So my goal this week is to stop and smell the roses. SLOW DOWN and enjoy my children... With a job possibility just around the corner my days home with them may be limited...

Picnic in the Park

2008-06-22T19:36:00.000-07:00

This past weekend I was all about getting out in the nice warm weather, so we grabbed some KFC and headed to Leif Erickson park to do some exploring. This park also known as the Rose Garden, as it has over 3000 species of roses (however not in bloom yet). Its a beautiful park with fountains, cobblestone walkways, and of course scenic views as its along the shoreline. The a stretch of the lakewalk runs through the park, so we took a little jaunt down the coast, until the complainers started up "my legs are gonna break", "I just can't keep walking all the day" which really annoyed the parents so we turned around.

The boys loved our picnic...they ate "chicken on the bone" (aka drumstick) and kept us entertained with all the questions about the big ship coming in to port. Whenever we go somewhere now they ask if we'll have a picnic... which isn't always a bad idea, but we can't keep doing sandwiches...bleh! (Hence the KFC)

The night we were there they were having "movie in the park"... a huge inflatable movie screen was showing some scary moving in this little valley, so people were staking out their seats with blankets and chairs. The hillsides creating this valley make every seat in the house a good one... it looks like it was made for this purpose. To accompany the free show, there are vendors in the park to sell you snacks and drinks to make your movie experience a pleasurable one. They have this every Friday night during the summer, so we plan to go back with the kids when its a G rated film... It was a gorgeous night, the breeze from the lake was perfect and no mosquitoes!

Lets go to the Beach

2008-06-21T14:14:00.000-07:00

So we hit the beach yesterday... the Mercury hit 84 (29 C) and it was hotter on the beach then up at our house. The sand was soooo hot you had to keep your shoes on or stand on your towel and if you dared, you would sprint to the water to cool them off. The boys were turned off by sand in their sandals and at first whiny about the temp of the sand, but a minute later they had forgotten their concerns and were hitting the beach. It was pretty busy. However, not many in the lake. But you certainly did need to dip a bit to cool off here and there.
Of course there was frustrating moments during our trip to the beach. After all I was the only adult with a 3mo old, and 2 pre-schoolers. I had just set Brady and seat down to unload they other 50 things over my shoulder, when Riley tossed up a handful of sand for the wind to blow right on Brady's lap. So now I've got a sandy baby, and a car seat full of sand. Once we got everything all laid out, they wanted lunch. A little sand to go with our sandwiches and pretzels on the side.
Brady was mostly cooperative with our beach outing... I timed it so he'd have a full belly and in need of long nap. He woke a couple of times, and needed some snuggles, and then a little filler to conk out for the rest of the trip. But it was when Brady was screaming that Dylan and Riley were wanting me to open their candy... as i'm struggling to discretely get situated to nurse my screaming child on the beach, they were saying my name over and over and over again... Just trying to get my attention, I know, but I was loosing my cool. All I needed was a gust of wind to take the blanket flying off my bare white chest and we'd really have a scene. Next time I need a big umbrella to give us (me) some more privacy and shade. Brady was fine in his car seat with the canopy and a light blanket draped to my chair, allowing a cool breeze from the lake. And Dylan and Riley splashed around to keep cool. But I roasted in the open hot sun... I was too chicken to submerge in the freezing lake, plus didn't want to be wet and sandy when Brady needed to be snuggled. I felt a bit albino out there, next to some of those real beachers that already have the California tan. Fake baking must be a pre-requisite to the beach lifestyle.
But all in all we had a great time, and look forward to going back again, with Daddy. He was working, so to make him a bit jealous I sent him a few pix from the beach just to rub it in ;-)

Little squirt

2008-06-20T13:40:00.000-07:00

Brady hit the 3 month mark last Friday and continues to amaze us with his strength and growth. For quite sometime now, he's shown that he's a very curious fellow... always wanting to look around, stand up and be where all the action is. I think Dylan and Riley had something to do with this... they've conditioned him to accept and enjoy chaos. My mother claims that Brady is just like I was as a baby... Nosey! Me?... Never!

After we got back from our little vacay to Grandma's this past week, I tried him in the Excersaucer. He loves it!! I stuff a pillow in around his belly to keep him from flopping around, and he'll lean up against the back when he needs to rest a bit. But then he's right back at it... At first I thought he's legs would be a bit short to touch the bottom, so I stuck a pillow under there so he could stand up, but he really doesn't need it. Without that pillow there he now jumps a little, or stiffens his legs rather, to get the toys to make a noise. In the last few days he's just started to bat at his toys in reach. The Excersaucer toys are too far so we lay a few on the tray. His fav is a little blue duck that he'll have a stare down with (see picture) and then once he grabs it he'll ram it in his face and slide it around until he gets it into his mouth, then chews away. He's got these cute little grunting sounds that he makes as he slobs it up.
I think we are getting closer and closer to a giggle too.. You can get a few Ha... Ha... Ha...'s with the break in between, but not a full belly giggle yet. He's being a little stingy with this anxious Mama. His big toothless smiles are super huge... they push his cheeks up so high it makes his eyes squinty. I kiss those cheeks a hundred times a day.

I love it here... and I love not working!!

2008-06-19T19:51:00.001-07:00

At several points throughout the day today I caught myself all wrapped up in the beauty of Duluth (its not the first time). This morning the I was up long before the big boys, so made them some Blueberry muffins (only to find that they don't really care for blueberries in their muffins?) and then packed lunches to drop off for daddy, and some for us to enjoy at the park later. Well unfortunately it rained a bit this morning so lunch plans changed, and we ended up eating with Brad at his office. But we were able to stop at the park on the way home. The Bayfront park is one that we favor... it has an awesome play structure for kids... its a huge wooden maze of passages that link together 4 mini castles...slides, monkey bars, balance beams you name it! The boys love it and so do I, because they cleverly built seating areas throughout for parents, so they can keep an eye on the kids in all directions. From where I was sitting I could see the lift bridge raise for a ship coming into harbor, then behind me was the picturesque view of homes tucked into the lush hillside and the tall historic buildings of downtown. The best of 2 worlds... land and water in just a head turn. After living in the flatlands of Fargo for 10 years, its like my eyes are on sensory overload. The dark blah grey tones of buildings and asphalt have been replaced with bright, fresh living landscapes.

After looking at homes all over town, we've driven through a bunch of different neighborhoods. Each one is uniquely different, but so cozy. Each little neighborhood is nestled its own mini forest, so its alittle weird driving around, because you almost feel like you leave the city and stumble upon little communities in the country. But as you can imagine, with that is peacefulness... nature out your back door. Literally, we've had deer in our yard! And we live 3 blocks from Target and the mall. It was on my drive home this afternoon, that I felt lucky to live here... every time I go up or down the hill I get a rejuvenating feeling with the view... I just can't stop looking and ahhing...I hope this never ends.

Tomorrow we plan to hit the beach out at park point. Yes, the water is chilly, but its supposed to be 80 and its still fun to play in the sand and picnic at the beach, even if you don't swim. Our neighbors were there yesterday, and I guess its already busy so we aren't total fools. What can you expect when your a Minnesotan...we roll our windows down as soon as its above zero.

Also its the Huge Grandma's Marathon this weekend (12th largest in the US) so I'm sure we'll go check out some of the festivities. Maybe I can gain some motivation or ambition to get back into shape while I'm there. Who knows, I might start training to run it next year ;-) Or maybe not. Brad got some free tickets for the bleachers... guess we can sit and watch them cross the finish line?... Doesn't that sound exciting... I'll be in the party tent thank you... yeah, that's right! I'll have my one drink, get red blotches on my neck and then head home for a nap.
Have a great weekend!

Great Great Grandma Clara is 95

2008-06-16T13:28:00.000-07:00

This last Sunday we spent the day celebrating my Great Grandma Clara's 95th Birthday in Tabor, MN. Not too many people can say they have a Great Grandma, so for my kids to have Great-Great Grandparents is pretty neat. (My dad's Gpa is still living too).
At 95 yrs old, she is still sharp as a tack, and witty. She lives in a retirement community, and is mostly independent, aside from errands and such. She has aged well, and keeps up with her travels, fooling anyone to think she's 95.

Brad caught up with us on Saturday just in time for the festivities, which included a Polka Mass... Yes I said Polka mass. A catholic church service, with a tuba, snare drum and accordion. The boys bopped along during church, the big boys that is. Brady made his appearance with a screaming fit mid service, demanding to eat. The Polka didn't stop there... we headed next door to the town hall, for a lite lunch, cake and more Polka. This time there was a dance floor! Chicken dance anyone?!

28 yrs ago I was the last link to a 5th generation as my Great-Great Grandma Myerchin was still living. Now I have birthed not one, or two, but THREE children for my grandma Clara's 5 generations. She is so proud of these boys. I just wish we could see her more often.

After a long day of Polka partying, and at the conclusion of our 2 week get away the boys were tuckered out... We weren't more than 3 miles on the road before they were out.

Carnival Events Continue

2008-06-15T13:14:00.000-07:00

Aside from the carnival rides, they have free kids events on Sunday that the boys participated in. With the help of cousin Brandon, Riley took 1st Place and Dylan 2nd place in their heat of the turtle race. The big prize was a can of pop! Wahoo!
Dylan was in the lead, until just inches before the finish line, his turtle took a detour and Riley's guy took the gold.

They weren't all that interested in the tractor pull, so saved up their energy for the Kiddie Parade. To get a second use out of their tuxedos from my brothers wedding, I dressed them up as Jake and Elroy "the Blues Brothers". My mom quick crafted some microphones out of tinfoil, construction paper and sunscreen bottles. They looked pretty cool, and took 3rd place winning Ribbons and $10 cash, along with a juice box and bag of M & M's for participating. Last year they won 2nd place as "Born 2 Be Wild". They had Doo-rags, jean jackets, shades, and rode their quads. Next year calls for 1st place I guess.

2008-06-15T12:52:00.000-07:00

We're back from our little get away to at my parents... A very busy and fun filled 2 weeks. Dylan and Riley would describe the highlight of our "vacation" as the Erskine Water Carnival. Grandma bought them unlimited ride wristbands, and after 3 days of Dizzy Dragons, and Merry Go'Rounds, you'd think they'd be walking circles. Dylan loved... I mean loved the Dizzy Dragon Ride. He'd get it spinning and just giggle away. At one point toward the end of the weekend they were riding together and Riley was screaming at Dylan to stop spinning it, but Dylan just kept spinning and giggling. The next time they road seperately. Riley enjoyed this inflatable Tonka Truck slide, he'd climb up and bounce all the way down, crashing into the wall at the bottom. I drug Dylan up it once, but he wanted nothing to do with it. On the last day of rides, I was able to talk Riley into the Tilt-A-Whirl. So he and I went for a dizzy spin, and let the G-Forces lay us back into the seats. I could tell he didn't really like it, but he never cried or asked to get off. He just said to me as the ride was going "the Merry Go Round is much better than this."
Just one big melt down as we said good bye to the carnival rides... Riley didn't want to get off the motorcyles/jeeps so sat on the running board of the jeep pouting, until the Carnie came around again and gave him with a toothless grin. I threatened to leave him there with "the man" and that did the trick... although he crabbed the whole way home- it was definately nap time.
They promised Grandma they'd be back next year for the 54th Annual Water Carnival.

Tying up loose ends...

2008-06-12T20:25:00.000-07:00

Brady and I visited Fargo these past 2 days, with a list of loose ends to tie up, and people to visit one last time. My dear friend Raelyn and her hubby Darin put us up for the night, and caught me up on all latest Fargo news. Nothing too exciting has been missed, but it did feel weird talking so much about Duluth as my home in our conversations. I cleaned out my office,turned in my badge and pager at work and had a little farewell lunch with my office/building mates. It wasn't as sad as I thought it should be... I think that being off for maternity leave played around with the emotions and actual process of leaving my job/co-workers? Apparently MeritCare got slammed with violations last month during their review, and along with huge penny pinching, sounds like I got out when the going was good.
Brady and I also met some girlfriend potential... Sohpia was born May 15th to my friend (and fellow Mom of twins) Stacey. Dylan and Riley have dibbs on her 2 older sisters Oliva and Mari, so everyone can now be happy when our families get together :-) Too bad we live so far apart... (Drew and Stacey, you're welcome to visit any time!)
Got 2 new tires put on the van (all the recent miles had the wires poking out!), took my wedding ring to Riddles for its routine warranty check, picked up pictures at Sears from our April photo shoot, got a new cut and color from my fav hairstylist, signed off the books at Children's Place and stopped by Dylan and Riley's old school for one last farewell before heading out of town.
Oh yeah, and I had to drive by our old house... On the way there I was a bit nervous... I didn't want to find the new carpet (that we're still paying for) lying on the curb or the boys play structure pulled apart and just a pile of lumber in the yard, or my gentlly trained grape vine ripped from the fence...thankfully there was none of that. Just a lone gal standing at the kitchen counter... didn't look like they had moved in yet, as there were no living room lights on, and the walls were bare... I just saw her standing there... in my house. It was so weird to see that image, as it still felt like my house... down the street I went, past my old neighbors... driving under the shade of the big tall oaks that line the streets... Goodbye old house...

Call Back

2008-06-11T19:24:00.000-07:00

Yes... I got a call back from United Way! I am one of the top 2 for the position and have been invited back for interviewing with the Board of Directors on June 24th. I'm super excited, yet very nervous as the Board consists of some local Big Shots. I was hoping some of Brad's connections would be on this board but no luck there, guess I'll have to do it on my own ;-)
This time I'm getting prepared for the interview long in advance. I've bought a new outfit (that fits) and have it already ironed too. My interview is at 9:40am so thankfully Brad is able to just take the whole morning off, and can help wrangle the kids so I don't have to worry about them before I head off to the interview this time. Keep your fingers crossed... and wish for Big Bucks!! I've been doing some research on DayCare options and costs, and things aren't looking so cheap. (Can daycare and cheap even be used in the same sentence?) By the looks of it, we'll be spending close to $2000 a month at a daycare center, unless we can find a nice, clean and loving home daycare for the kids. YIKES thats a chunk of change. It was nice having preschoolers on a reduced rate... Infant child care is $195 a week!!

Off to the lake for some cozy time in the camper... looks like rain all week. Good thing Brady and I have made arrangements to stay with Raelyn in Fargo tomorrow night. Grandma and the big boys can have the camper to themselves.

Interview

2008-06-05T17:15:00.000-07:00

Today was the big day... My United Way interview. If you've been following my life (our life) over the last few weeks you've seen that most things really haven't been as simple as they seem. And so why start today right?
Since the boys and I are staying at my parents this week and next, I was set up to get a call from United Way this morning at 11:30am. So I had my mom come home for a long lunch to look after the boys while I was on my interview call. 11:40, 11:45, 11:50 and no call. I began to wonder if I wasn't supposed to be the one calling in?! So called to see what the scoop was, and to my surprise the interview was cancelled??? One of the directors leading the interview was out ill (unexpectedly) today and the ball got dropped... as no one had called eariler to cancel. Ugh!! OK she'll call tomorrow and set up another day/time.
Well just an hour later as I'm chasing the big boys off to nap, and Brady cries to eat the phone rings so I answer it. Its the President of United Way, and she' like to interview me. Thankfully she caught on that it wasn't a good time to talk and asked that I call her back when I had a moment. So I got everyone off to lala land and made the important call. It went pretty well... first time ever doing a phone interview... tough stuff. Its hard to sell yourself, or talk yourself up over the phone, it just felt weird. She asked some really tough questions, and really focused on the administrative side to this position... dealing with budgets, databases and supervising staff. I feel confident in my performance, but couldn't get a sense of her interest in me or not? I should find out next week if I make the call back list...they want to sit down with the top 2 candidates for more interviewing. Unfortunately she was in the process of restructing the salary and wasn't able to comment on the hiring range, so I don't even know if all this worry is even gonna be worth it? All I can do now is sit and wait...

Wait, its not over yet...

2008-06-03T16:51:00.000-07:00

Yippee Monday was closing day... or NOT!! On our way back to Fargo from Winnipeg on Monday morning we received a call from our realator with news that the appraiser wasn't satisfied with our work, just yet. The a*^%@)* wanted the engineer to come back out and inspect the work that Brad had done, and the shinglers weren't quite done when we went out that morning to do his walk through. SO our closing got bumped to Tuesday morning...meaning we had to pay for yet another nights stay in Fargo. This time we did upgrade hotels from the Super 8 and stayed at the Best Western Kelly Inn so the kids could have some pool fun all afternoon/evening. It seriously felt like we were doomed to never close on this house!! To relax a little I enjoyed a strawberry margarita poolside and had a nice visit with some friends (Jenn & Russ). I would have loved to of had about 14 margarita's but breastfeeding held me to only one.
Tuesday morning found us up and at 'em for a 9:00am closing. Grabbed a bite at the deluxe continental hotel breakfast and off we were. Of course timing couldn't have been any worse for Brady... he wanted to eat the second we walked in the door, and he just couldn't be put off any longer. So there I was nursing and signing away. Thankfully it was a women agent otherwise it could have been more ackward. Talk about a circus... I'm nursing, Brad's phone is ringing non-stop, Dylan was digging through the jelly beans and Riley was playing with a cup full of pens. Unfortunately we didn't really have any other choice but to bring them along- 15 minutes felt like hours in the tiny room.
After it was all said and done, we walked out with a big fat check in hand and smiles from ear to ear... it was officail, our house was SOLD!! In the 10 blocks to the bank we came up with several ways to foolishly spend a years salary, but grounded ourselves to depositing the check for safe keeping in a CD. Now we just need to fatten that thing up for a house in Duluth :-)
I couldn't complete this entry without a HUGE thank you and moment of recognition to our dear realator, Donna Berglund from Arnie & Mary Realty. Way back 6 years ago she helped us find this home, and through the years sent warm greetings on the various holidays and anniversaries. Smart marketing I thought, but after our experience working with her on selling the house, I've found that she is sincerly thoughtful and the all around agent you want on your side. Over the last month during her visits she's entertained the big boys, comforted a fussy baby, painted basement walls, scrapped the garage door, let us in the house when we were locked out, and been a shoulder to lean one when things kept getting thrown at us. Not many people go above and beyond their call of duty. I only wish we could take her with us to Duluth. If your in the market for a realator, look her up... you won't be disappointed.

Cha Ching- Money in the Bank!!

Yet another twist

2008-06-01T19:44:00.000-07:00

It was yet another twist to the house selling process this past week. I received a call Wednesday afternoon from out Realtor in Fargo that she had finally received the report from the buyer's appraiser, listing projects that must be done on the house before they can approve the buyers loan~ which means no loan- no closing June 2nd- which means we'd have to make another mortgage payment. The ridiculous list of things included,
1- scrapping and painting the garage door,
2- scrapping and painting the storage room wall
3- re-shingling the house
4- install an electrical outlet in the bathroom
5- install a bathroom exhaust van
6- have the basement inspected by an structural engineer

OK, now thats quite the list to throw at us just 5 days before our closing date when they had all month to get this done!! But at this point what choice did we have but get on the ball and get these tasks completed in time to close the deal. We reached an agreement with the buyers to pay halfers on this list, but the stress was all ours. So Wednesday afternoon I hurried and packed the family up to head back to Fargo to look after these projects. However I was not only packing for this little emergency trip to Fargo, but our planned trip to Winnipeg for the weekend, then the 2 week stay we will have with my parents. Like a mad women I packed us all up in between Brady's feedings and we were on the road by 6:00pm. (thank God I had did laundry that morning).
Early Thursday morning we were off to Menard's to get our supplies and head on out for a long day at the house. Of course we forgot our keys in Duluth, so we had to wait until our realator got there to let us in. And then since I had the water shut off the boys had to pee on the tree and we snuck over to the neighbors backyard to wash our hands from the garden hose. (Thankfully I was able to hold it until we went for supper). So I spent the day scrapping and painting the garage as Brad worked away in the house, Brady watched from his car seat in the driveway and then the boys cheerfully played in the yard, they've so dearly missed. Our yard has been the hardest thing to live without, and I caught myself just gazing at it several times througout the day.
Back to the list... Believe it or not we got an electrician out there that afternoon, a roofer lined up for Friday and the structural engineer came around noon... Someone was certainly on our side as the engineer that came out was a friend of a friend, and helped us out a ton. Not only did he give very specific instructions to Brad as to what needed to be done, but he gave him the exact measurements and then invited Brad over to his home to cut the wood. Sandman's a great guy, and his friendly, familiar face was exactly what we needed in this unfortunate predicament.
Its hard to really describe the overwhelming stress and feelings of defeat that occurred during those 2 days, but we pulled it together (thanks to my determination) and are still on for closing tomorrow afternoon. Brad hasn't recovered from this event, as he's groucher that all get out still. We've certianly been a rollercoaster ride with selling the house, but its been shortlived and hopefully one we won't encounter again for quite some time. It could have been worse...

I saw the ship come sailing in...

2008-05-24T18:33:00.000-07:00

Today we took a trip down to canal park to check out the cool little shops and eateries along the shore. We found a super cool (but super expensive) toy shop just like they had "back in the old days", you know the days before the big box companies came to town. And then just a few doors down was a candy and MN specialty food store. So we each picked a special treat and cheerfully indulged on the park bench. At the end of the strip is the canal with the lift bridge that raises for boat access to/from the harbor. As we were heading that way we heard the horn sound which signals boats coming into the canal, so we started running in hopes of catching all the action. To our somewhat disappointment it was only the little cruise boat passing through, so the bridge doesn't even lift all the way up and it wasn't really antything spectacular. But while we were there we caught the schedule and saw a real ship would be coming through in an hour. So we grabbed a bite at Grandmas and made it back out to the breakwaters to see the real deal. This time we got to see the bridge lift all the way up and stood front row as the "Quebecois" came crusing in from Toronto to pick up a load of coal. This thing was massive and to see it on the move up close was pretty cool. Since it was a Canadian ship, Brad gave a few hoots, and asked the boys "whose from Canada?" Riley named, "Nana, Papa, Sydney, Auntie Jodi, Uncle Mike, Auntie Lisa, Auntie Donna and all those other people". But they didn't really know that Daddy was from Canada... Dylan said "No daddy we're from Fargo." I had pointed out the little windows on the side as the sleeping quarters for the guys, and Dylan figured, they'd have to take turns sleeping so someone was always driving the ship... "we don't want it to crash into us mommy."
Canal Park is also where the lakewalk starts... its a paved path that goes for miles and miles up the north shore. Along the way there's tons of parks, picnic areas and points of interest to check out. To get you around they have this really neat family style bike buggy things that you can rent and we'll have to try out some day. They can accomodate 2-4 peddlers, with spots up front for kids to ride along. So when we're looking for a good workout, we can load the 3 kids and take it all in.
Today wasn't the day though, as it was rather windy. The breeze from the lake made it pretty chilly toward the end of our adventure so we didn't have any problems getting the boys head home. We were all worn out from the fresh air, and so napped time was great!
Once again there's so much we want to see and do, but once it warms up some more first.

Good News...

2008-05-23T18:03:00.000-07:00

As I thought I was offered the job at St. Mary's Hospital as the emergency room social worker, but only learned of this by a message left on my phone. So I wasn't able to discuss the option of "better" hours and pay. Although I'm certain I'll turn down the offer simply because of the crummy hours, at least I should give it a try to see if they can offer me something else before completely ruling it out? I'll give them a call on Tuesday and see where it goes from there.
Anyway- thats not my good news. On Friday afternoon, United Way called me for an interview :-) I was totally excited, until they asked to do the interview June 5th (their pres is out next week)... but that's the week we have to be back in Fargo to close on the house and then the boys and I were going to be staying at my parents for the next 2 weeks. I openly shared we've got ends to tie up in Fargo and even though its not the ideal scenario the lady offered to do a phone interview instead. She'll call my Tuesday to confirm this. In the meantime I almost want to pop into their office or send them a picture to show them my face, so they can put a cute face with the voice when we do the interview. Definitely not because my looks would win them over, but this position entails some public speaking, so appearance makes a difference when hiring... I'd hate for them to think I'm an old haggard, unkempt looking lady. I'd rather they have the visual of a fresh, enthusiastic, and sophisticated woman :-) Blah Blah Blah

Last week I made some calls in search of daycare and then on Friday we went to check out a home daycare. Pulling up it looked great, and the lady herself was super sweet... but the house stunk of piss (2 little dogs and 1 cat), the kids were filthy dirty, and cartoons were on the whole time. I couldn't tell if they were dirty because of poor parenting or inattentive childcare. Even if it were the first, to clued me into her lack of cleanliness. Another sign of this was the fact that she had a 9 month old scooting around a cruddy floor, sucking on a very visibly dirty stuffed animal. (Bleh) The kids didn't really have their own area to play, just toys along the wall in the living room that housed that huge cartoon playing TV. Need I say more... this was a big fat NO! Unfortunately I'm too nice to just turn around and leave, so we had to stay along enough to seem interested and not rude. Thankfully I've got her number and she doesn't have mine. This certainly confirms my plan to stick with daycare centers for now.

2008-05-22T20:22:00.000-07:00

Well my big interview was today, and I kicked ass! The biggest challenge was finding something to wear. Clothes were flying out of the bins this morning as I frantically rummaged through them. looking for something "professional" to fit. If it wasn't the muffin top spilling out of my pants, it was my chest bursting at the seams and about ready to pop the buttons off my top. Thankfully I hadn't done my hair or make up at this point, cuz it was ugly. So, of course after all this scurrying around I was running late (totally my style). To make it out the door in time I had to put on my makeup while nursing Brady. (Very talented I know) Dylan and Riley were even Mommy's little helpers this morning. Dylan chased down Brady's sucky, plopped it in and kept him cool while I was ironing. And then Riley held my mirror (tried to any way) while I put on my make up. They even asked "what else I can do to help?" What sweethearts. They were rewarded with a little Scooby Doo action while I did the finishing touches.
A very quick drive to the hospital, sweet parking spot and adequate change for the parking meter, I arrived at 11:52 ready to knock their socks off. There were a few questions that I had to stop and think about, like "what would your supervisor say you need improvement on?" Ummmm yeah- didn't know what to say to this. Had she ever given me any real disciplinary action then it may have been easier to come up with something. (But I'm just so damn good ;-) So instead I had to come up some cheeseball response to answer their question. It was something to the extent of me having fault in not openly sharing my vast knowledge with colleagues and being a better teacher?! I really thought I was gonna strike out on this one, but thankfully the manager interviewing me knew what I was getting at and gave an example the really nailed it on the head. (bullet dodged) Otherwise I was on fire! Sssssss
I felt great and no doubts that they want to hire me, which is great right?!... Well after hearing of the hours they want (yes hours not pay) I'm totally not in for it. They are looking for someone to fill a part-time position (28hrs wk - SUPER!)...all good until they gave the shift schedule which would be 2:00pm-12:00am e/o weekend and then 4:00p-12:00a during the week to total 28 hrs a week. LIKE COME ON!!!! I want a life. I would never see my hubby, and as a family we really wouldn't function very well on those kind of hours. Sot thats a done deal... No THANKS!
Thankfully we aren't in a position where, I'd have to accept. So I'll knock this one off the list and hope that I get an interview with United Way next week. Its a position that I'd much rather have, and I'm certain the hours won't be ridiculous.
At least I got some practice.

I've got an interview

2008-05-20T19:58:00.000-07:00

So I've been putting it off, but this past weekend I saw a job opportunity that I should apply for. St.Mary's hospital is looking for an emergency room social worker, so I submitted my application/resume online late last night. When doing so I noticed that the application deadline was April 28th, but since I had just saw it in the paper I thought what the hell and applied any way. So when the phone rang this afternoon I was completely caught off guard as the Human Resources rep asked me for an interview. It hadn't even been 24 hrs since I submitted my resume?! The gentleman on the phone started by saying "I am very interested in your experience and your over all resume." :-) So I'm going in on Thursday for an interview.
I enjoy working in Healthcare, and know the ER is an exciting place, but also know what bad things come through an ER, so I'm not sure what to think about the position? I guess I've got nothing to lose, and with be back in the work force, that puts us one step closer to getting out of this townhouse. (Its hard to guess what you can afford when you don't know your total income).
In a way I kind of feel bummed, because I was looking forward to the summer off with the boys. If offered the job, maybe they'd compromise and let me start after the 4th of July (summer mid point). We'll see, lets just make it through the interview first. I suppose I'll have to shower Thursday, and dig through my work clothes to see what'll fit. Oh yeah, I better brush up on my interviewing skills too, as its been awhile since I've been in the hot seat. What Pressure!!
Wish me luck...

What a day

2008-05-19T19:56:00.000-07:00

Today was one of those days where you just can't get anything accomplished. Last night was a long one, with Brady waking up more than usual, and Dylan peeing the bed in between getting up with the little one. I think I've been mostly awake since 2 am? So at 8:00 when Brad left for work, I had Brady finishing up a feeding, and Dylan eating Captain Crunch in bed with me. I dozed off and woke to all 3 boys in my bed watching cartoons. Hey it worked until 10:00 when Brady's diaper just couldn't hold out any more and I had to get up. I managed to throw in a couple loads of laundry before lunch but never did get around to folding them. After an exhausting battle to get the toys picked up, it was nap time :-) and for once in the last 2 weeks they all feel asleep at the same time, so I hopped back into bed and took a quick 30 minute nap myself. As much as I wanted to just stay in my jammies all day, I did have to shower and look extra nice this evening, because it was my big night out...
I went to dinner with the Twin Ports Mothers of Multiples at Baker's Island in Superior, WI (just over the river). This was the first time meeting these ladies, so I had to look my best and make a good first impression. After all this is my only connection to the outside world and therefore I needed to be accepted. A group of 15 women came out for eats tonight, and thankfully they all seemed pretty normal ;-) Although May is the last meeting until September there are occasional gatherings throughout the summer that will help me get to know them better. One thing that I've already found pleasantly different about this group, is that they fund raise very little (almost none at all)... very small/tight budget yes, but at least they focus more on the moms and aren't pulling you in 50 directions to try and make a buck. It will definitely be interesting to see how a group of 40 members fairs compared to the group of 130+ that I left behind in Fargo.
(Yawn) I'm back in my sweats, and the news is on, so it looks like its time to hop back into bed. I've got a big day ahead of me tomorrow... I've got to make a trip to the grocery store with the 3 kids.
Hopefully the laundry fairy will have those clothes folded by morning.

What a chunk

2008-05-16T11:28:00.000-07:00

Mr. Brady weighs 13lbs. 13oz... He's in the 95% for weight and 60% for height. Every thing else is in check and he looks great. Unfortunately though he had 3 shots and a liquid vaccination yesterday, so the little guy was pretty uncomfortable last evening. It seems he slept it off, and is himself today. Our new pediatrician seems fantastic, and very relateable. She's 30 something and has young kids as well, so hopefully we've found a good fit.

That kid is getting milk made of gold, and its showing! I just had to take a pic of him in his diaper to prove it and will get it posted ASAP. I remember when Dylan and Riley were about 3 months old and I took a diaper shot of the boys to document their pudginess. Some of you may still have this photo, it was one I sent out with Thank You cards from their showers. The best are the rolls that stack up their little thighs. I wish I could go back to that moment in life where rolls upon rolls isn't a body image issue.

Yesterday after Brady's appointment I swung by a street that was having a bunch of rummage sales for a little break from the kids. The homes on this street were huge and gorgeous... so you'd think nice stuff at the sales, but it wasn't good at all, so I was disappointed. However I did have quite the experience at one of the stops which was a house sitting at the top of the hill. The street was at a very large incline, so much that the sliding van door just shot back when I pulled the handle. I wasn't so sure that it was even safe to park on that kind of incline, but everyone else was so I did. But I was sure to use the emergency brake as a back up.
On the way back to the van was when the view hit me... My gosh it was beautiful. This home had an awesome view of the hillside and lake. I'm finding that
most every where you go in this town, you can find a moment of beauty. This has really summed it up for me, that when looking to buy a house, its got to have a Lake view. Why live in such a beautiful city, and not be able to enjoy it every day of your life? Guess I better start saving now, because you certainly pay for the view. Even if its just a peak of a view from the attic window, at least I'd have a place to go and take it all in?! :-)

Finally the weather is nice around here... today is the second day in the 60's and boy does it feel great to breath that warm air. The boys love being outside, especially when they don't have to wear their jackets and hear me shout "pull up your hood" every 5 minutes. I'm super anxious to get out and stroll the Lake walk now that its warmed up. My mom is coming this weekend for a visit to our new home, and Duluth for the first time. I'm excited to have another adult around the house, and someone other than Brad to hang out with. Plus we'll get to show her the city and do some more site seeing ourselves. There's so much to do and see here, I love it!

PS... At the bottom of each blog entry is the opporutnity for you to talk to me by posting a comment. Try it out, I'd love to hear what you've got to say, and to see who all reads this thing.

Duluth Heritage Sports Center

2008-05-14T12:34:00.000-07:00

First off… apologies to all my faithful readers. It took much longer than expected to get our internet up and running but as of last night I'm up and running!!! To keep up with recent events I have been journaling on Word to cut and paste, then back dated those entries. But from here on out I should be more up to date.

Today all the boys are napping at the SAME TIME, which allows me to write in peace. But I'm so very tempted to take a nap myself... so I won't be writting much.

I've added the Duluth Heritage Sports Center webpage link to the left, so if you are interested in seeing Brad's rink and learning a little more about it, you can check it out. They have a live web cam too, so you can see whats going on out on the ice. More of the action will be evenings and weekends, but if you coordinated it with Brad he could plan some entertainment for you every once in awhile? I called and asked him to do Chunk's chubby belly dance from Goonies, but he declined.

Tonight we are picnicing down at the lake... The Canadian Snowbirds are putting on a free little airshow over Lake Superior at 5:30 and we are in the 60's today. Wahoo!! Dylan and Riley are begging for McDonalds, but I'm doing it the old fashioned way, and packing our picnic. Not just boring ol sandwhiches either, we'll be having Grilled Chicken Ceasar Pita's, grapes and cheezies. (Pat on the Back, thank you). Not sure where to park down there, and not really looking forward to a van full of crumbs... but it should be a good time anyway.

Brady is 2 months old

2008-05-13T11:46:00.000-07:00

He's growing so fast! The little chunk is getting nice and chubby these days. His legs are getting rolly and his little wrists are so fat that he's got no wrist, just a deep crease separating his hand from his arm. It was around 6 weeks when he started smiling with cohercion, then just a week later he was giving them out much easier. And today the little guy smiles just when you look at him :-) If only the camera could catch those HUGE smiles. But I got close a few times with these pictures. Just the other day, I think I had a chuckle from him... and Brad says he did too. He said he kinda joked on his laugh and then had this confused look on his face? Too cute.

One of his favorite things these days are laying under his floor gym, watching the star light up and sing. When he's really excited you'll see his arms swinging and legs just a kicking away. And he makes these cute little sounds, as he's talking to his animals. Every once in a while he'll really let out a loud one. He loves to lay on his change table, talking and smiling with you too. Its so much fun to seem him grow and explore.

Another new thing he's discovered is his thumb!!! YIKES 3 thumb suckers! He's got it in there a couple times and will give some good sucks but gets it a little too far back and gags himself. Today he really had it in there and was sucking away, but again I couldn't get the camera there in time. But I'll catch it and get it up on the site. Its just too cute. And although having 3 yr olds who suck there thumb isn't so cool, when they are this little and can comfort themselves, thats a huge perk.

We have found a new pediatrician here in Duluth and will be meeting her tomorrow when we bring Brady in for his 2 month appointment. I'm sad that we had to say goodbye to Dr. Thurlow back in Fargo~ she'll be hard to replace.

Happy Mothers Day

2008-05-11T11:44:00.000-07:00

Happy Mothers Day! Today my boys took me for a fabulous brunch at Blackwoods on London Road (great Lake Superior view). They got dressed up, and so I myself, had to put aside the sweats and dig out the dress up gear. Thankfully I had some stretchy gauchos that did the trick as I still don’t fit my “normal clothes”… But I have to say it felt good to get all dressed up and feel somewhat sexy again.
The rest of the day was spent around the house. But I did get to put my feet up, as Brad looked after the children and prepared a nice steak dinner for us. He even cleaned up the kitchen afterward!  (All this good food today really blew my diet!)
This was the first mothers day were I really felt it…The years before Dylan and Riley were too young to really get the drift, but this year they did. They knew that today was a special day for Mommies and so several times throughout the day (without any prompting), I got hugs, kisses and I Love You’s from them. Too bad it comes only once a year… Mothers Day should be everyday!! Having Brady be part of Mother’s Day this year, was also the icing on the cake. He gives me the feeling of ~ this is my family, we are complete. So please God no more surprises 
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY

Gooseberry Falls

2008-05-10T11:30:00.000-07:00

Today we took in the scenic North shore sites and drove out to Gooseberry Falls State Park. This scenic drive takes you along the north shore of Lake Superior all the way to Canada, through several small “villages” that all have their own little neat gift shops, restaurants and touristy things. (We only ventured 50 miles or so up the shore) Along the way there is a stretch were the old highway cuts through some huge rocky hills, taking you through lighted tunnels. Of course the boys thought this was super cool, and giggled as they pulled their sun glasses over their eyes as they pretended to be in a rocket ship. Along the way we made a stop for lunch at the Rustic Inn, which is a very classy, and quant place. In addition to the delicious lunch, they have a list of 15+ fresh homemade pies made daily which seemed their specialty so of course I had to try one. I choose the Raspberry Cream pie, which was absolutely fabulous! Merienge crust, raspberry mousse, warm sour cream and whipped cream topping... Mmmmmm. Hours after we left I was still talking about it! This will definitely be a place to bring out guests.

Just a few miles past the restaurant was Gooseberry Falls State Park, and as you can see in the pictures the scenery is spectacular. (Dylan is in the blue hood and Riley in the white) The big boys enjoyed big waterfall, and hopping over the little streams that ran through the flat rocky area, while Brady took in the fresh air with a good sleep. How lucky are we to have this so near by... The sites around here are certainly a lot different than North Dakota. Despite the cold temps, we had a great time exploring the many trails and views of the Falls, and plan to return when the weather warms up.

Even though the sites were spectacular, the best part of the day, was just being together. The last month has been so chaotic with Brad working 7 days a week for the past 2 weeks we haven’t seen much of him. So to have him for a full day, with no phone calls either, was the best. We missed our Daddy.